ME AND MY WIFE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 7 YEARS
SHE COMPLAINS I MISTREAT HER
ALL I DID WAS SUPPORT MY FAMILY AND TRY START A
BUSINESS. EVERYTIME I ASK HER TO JOIN IN SHE REFUSE
BUT SHE WOULD GET MAD WHEN I BUY $20.00 DVD MOVIE FROM THE MONEY I GET FROM THE BUSINESS.
BECAUSE OF THIS SHE WOULD USE THIS AS A EXCUSE NOT TO PAY THE BILLS (GAS & ELECTRIC, TELEPHONE AND
THE CAR INSURANCE) I TOOK CARE THE REST OF THE BILLS. I WOULD TRY MY BEST TO REASON WITH HER TO PAY THE BILLS. MY WIFE WILL ALWAYS TELL ME HER NAME IS NOT ON THE BILLS SO SHE DON'T HAVE TO PAY IT .THE REASON THE BILL ARE IN MY NAME
MY WIFE HAS A HABIT OF LEAVE ME AND MOVING WITH HER
FAMILY FOR ABOUT 2 MONTH OUT THE YEAR( FOR THE LAST 6 YEARS)
THIS IS A ROUTIE FOR HER SINCE OUR TWO KID WAS BORN (AGE 6 AND 4 YEAR)I TRY TALKING TO THE PARENTS, BUT THEY SIDE WITH HER EVEN WHEN SHE ADMITTS SHE WRONG OR SHE TELL THEM HALF THE OF STORY.THEY WOULD GIVE HER THE KEYS TO THIER HOUSE.
MY QUESTION WHAT'S THE MAIN REASON
2006-11-08 13:49:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is putting too much responsibility on you. Talk to her and let her know how you feel. Talk but with no aggression. Don't get mad and start fighting, because that solves nothing. Good luck!
2006-11-08 13:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be difficult for both the man and the woman to adjust to her new body but god knows it would be so much more difficult for the woman. As a man all you can do is be supportive and be there for her. It would probably be a huge psychological boost for the woman if reconstruction were and option so that she present a more comfortable appearance but it would take time, trust, faith, and love for both to adjust to the changes. Of course I would not leave my wife, I love her and my commitment to her had nothing to do with cup size or her number of breasts... The day I married my wife I made a promise to God, a promise to her, and a promise to myself that I would always be there for her. Nothing can break that. I have an aunt that had a double mastectomy and she did not opt for implants... she and my uncle have been married to each other for 55 years... when someone you love goes through something traumatic they need you even more, not less. I ain't going nowhere!
2016-05-21 23:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me your wife is not very supportive. And she needs to understand that she can not run home to her parents everytime you to have a disagreement. But only you can stop this cause as long as you except it she's gonna continue. And she should be very supportive in help you with the business cause the both of you are gonna gain from it. Some women just don't understand when the have a good man by their side.
2006-11-08 13:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by tessie35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife obviously has issues. She has never grown beyond her family and learned responsibility. She still depends on her parents, hence she has never learned to be responsible enough to pay the bills, make a marriage work, etc. It is sad that your wife is this way but the thing is her parents and you put up with it and therefore reinforced her behavior. I think it would be really hard to break her habits after this long.
2006-11-08 13:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by ballerinabeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a healthy up-bringing for your children.
Your kids need stability and so do you.
If you are not in a commited relationship on both sides you need to make a decision about you and your childrens future now.
Good Luck
Ruby and I had the same idea and she is right.
2006-11-08 13:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a woman but its sounds like controlling, she feels she always right, and she may be used to getting her way, as a child or an adult. Sounds to me she wants to control you but you wil resist her and every time you resist she will leave. either she releizes you cant be controlled, or you give into her which dont, or your marriage will not last, its seems to me she not acting as a wife more or less she is playing house.
2006-11-08 13:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by Quasar1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and the kids don't need this crazy mess. Hire a good attorney and get a divorce. Hopefully you can get custody of the kids or at least joint custody. Your lawyer will explain your options to you. Get your life back and live in peace.
2006-11-08 13:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main reason is that your ex wife is a very fickle person who has no ability to make the sacrifices and adjustment nesscessery for a succesfully maraige. it seems from your description that her thought was all about her and never about both of your lives together as a wedded couple.
2006-11-08 13:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mithrandir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa nelly, CAPS STUCK ON???
Anywho, your wife is immature, you let her get away with it, her family lets her get away with it. She won't learn until someone puts there foot down and makes her take responsibility, or she has no choice. If you are ok with her sporadic immature behavior- wait she'll be back. If you are not ok with it then you need to make a choice leave her or get counseling and *hope* it works out.
2006-11-08 13:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to your wife as I was in a simalar situation.I left my boyfriend that I was with for eight years on several occassions for simalar reasons.My guess is she feels left out and doesn't know what she wants.It doesn't me she doesn't love you,she is just lacking 'something of her own'.She may feel that she is not equal to you and as a retaliation she leaves.You need to talk with her.Encourage her to find time for herself and find something that is just for her own pleasure and happiness.It was to late for my relationship but I do hope this helps you.
2006-11-08 13:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋