being physically restrained during physical intimacy?
would It make a diffrence HOW you were restrained...held wrists...handcuffing...tieing?
2006-11-08 13:44:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I certainly like the idea of it but not sure I'd be comfortable being restrained, I like to be in control so it would be quite a struggle giving control to a partner. Perhaps if blindfolded/hooded....
2006-11-09 01:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by paul h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to hate it, but I tried it again recently, and it was actually really kinda...well...*fun*. I guess one or both of us really changed during the ten years in between.
No handcuffs, though. You ever read "Gerald's Game" by Stephen King? It's about a woman whose husband, who is not a nice guy, handcuffs her to the bed, both wrists, with real police-issue cuffs, then dies before they have sex, in their remote vacation cabin. That would put anyone off that idea!
2006-11-08 13:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have tried it and enjoyed it. Mild soft wrist restraints, tied to the bed. No handcuffs, I don't like the risk involved with that.
I enjoyed the freedom of giving up complete control in those situations.
2006-11-08 15:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by strangefire2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend and I have talked about it. Right now we'd both like to try it with one of us tied to the bed. We still haven't worked our way up to that though.
I'd love bondage, not extreme S&M or anything like that. I've just always found it to be kind of a turn on. I only like the minor kind, when it gets painful I fall victim to an unrealistic amount of empathy. So while I might like some teasing and restraints anything extreme like weights or clamps, would probably make me pass out.
2006-11-08 14:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by Rageling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Already have (although as the restrainer and not the restrainee) with handcuffs, thumbcuffs, rope... can be fun
2006-11-08 13:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explore this shower.....Wrist tied, above head with rope tied to the shower head. Yes, causes extreme orgasm.
2006-11-08 13:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Rhiannon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would have to completely trust the person involved and I'm not that trusting, so while it might make a good fantasy i wouldn't actually allow myself to be helpless.
2006-11-08 18:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhhhhhhh,No.
Would you be willing to be strapped down,and beaten silly as in the movie story of O?
j/k lol
2006-11-08 14:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything for you hottie!
2006-11-08 16:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tried it hated it.
2006-11-08 14:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋