how do u kno it's the right time
2006-11-08 13:33:32 · 11 answers · asked by Coco 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you're asking about having sex for the first time, it's not now. You shouldn't have to ask. If you have any doubts, you're not ready. Don't let him tell you otherwise- trust me. I listened to my bf, and I was depressed for four years. Take care of yourself. He can take care of himself if you say "no".
2006-11-08 13:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by bflute13 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about losing your virginity, PLEASE DONT! It is so precious and sacred, someday when you want to get married you will regret physically giving yourself to someone other than him. I regret losing mine, and I was pressured into sex by my high school boyfriend. I thought I loved him but he abused my virtue by taking my virginity. Our relationship was never the same, all he wanted after that was sex and the love that we had, that was so strong at one time diminished. Please believe me, those that tell you to go ahead do not care about you! What would your parents think? Would they trust this boy with your virtue? I sure hope they are the kind of parents who would want to protect you.
Also, on a brighter note, My current husband and I have such a different kind of love than any I have had before. The commitment of marriage changes everything! I used to have sex with guys (just 2) who were so-called "skilled" in bed and there were lots of girls who said so, but after I got married, sex was so different! Better, oh sooooo much better! I laugh at how lousy it was before! Our society tells young people to have sex because they make money by saying it, premarital sex as a way to find joy is a huge lie. Ask any girl who loves herself and you will hear girls that want to be respected enough to have a guy wait for her till marriage.
email me if you want to talk or have questions, please, please think about the big picture of this choice before it is too late to make it. You can only lose your virginity once.
2006-11-08 21:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Natural healer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummm....the right time for what?
Is it the right time of the season for loving?
Is it the right time for the great taste of Diet Coke?
You have to kind of be specific here, dear, if you want a decent answer.
2006-11-08 21:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have one bullet, make it count! If you make a good decision even if you fail you wouldn't have any regrets. Risks pay off more but you can loose a lot. Try to balance your mind and heart to get meet somewhere in the middle.
2006-11-08 21:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by jrchairez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the right time is now
2006-11-08 21:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by schoolot 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i just feels right if you have any douts then it is not the right time. you will know because it will just happened you won't have to be askin us when the right time is
2006-11-08 21:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by kris_robinson_7 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no time like the present
2006-11-08 21:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by MamaJupe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you know in your heart without a doubt that it's right!
2006-11-08 21:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
d right time for what? be more specific next time? right time for love? yeah for love.....its christmas time!
2006-11-08 21:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by tink tink.....TiNkErBeLL! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right now.Crown and Coke,yummy!!
2006-11-08 21:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋