ok my girlfriend hasn't had her period since the end of sept. and she hasn't had her period since. we had unprotected sex twice and i know i shouldn't have done so. its been like a 2 weeks since we've done it and i'm worried that she might be pregnant. i really hope not. i've been waiting for her to
2006-11-08 13:23:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She could be pregnant. The best way to find out for sure is to take a pregnancy test.
2006-11-08 13:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you both had unprotected sex....not good! 1st, go to RiteAid, CVS, Walmart, or even Target. Buy the pregnancy test " First Response". You have an option to buy the single test, or the box that has two. I believe the color of the box is pink. Have her take the test the 1st thing in the morning. Check for the lines, one line means that she's NOT pregnant, two lines...she IS pregnant. Make sure that you are there, sometimes young girls will lie and say they're preg. when they're actually not, and take "abortion" money and have fun w/ it.
Now, you should go to the nearest Planned Parenthood Center near by and inquire such. You may also want to check with your local hospital who may be able to direct you both to a clinic, 1 for her to take a pregnancy test, and 2 for you both to take an STD test. They will give you free condoms, but you must use it properly in order to prevent pregnancy, but sometimes this is not alway guaranteed.
My advice, go to planned parenthood or the other option that I gave you above. Either way, untill you find out about the whole preg. issue, staying clear from UNPROTECTED sex is the option for you both.
Next time do realize, if you are ready to do adult things, then you must be able to pay the adult price...which is responsibility. Please be careful, and try to educate yourselves. Discuss the options you both have dhould dhe be pregnant, and ask yourself are you ready or annie up to the responsibility of having a child.
Good Luck
2006-11-08 14:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by Michele V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting so long to seek answers really complicates this situation. If in doubt, remember the 5-day rule (see planned parenthood link below). Since you're WAY beyond that point, you're forced to deal with Plan B.
As a previous person said, periods can vary, but Sept to Nov. would be unusually erratic.
Those who keep preaching that you fouled-up don't help, btw. Get thee to a drugstore, buy an EPT kit and see where you stand.
After that, you'll know if you really need to seek the advice of a physician or, as someone earlier said, you dodged a bullet. If a physician call is in order and you're on a limited income, several public health clinics or neighborhood health clinics would see you for a reduced fee.
You can also call your nearest Planned Parenthood (Google "Planned Parenthood" [your town] ) for the most reliable information. Beware of those "Abortion" listings in the Yellow Pages. They don't care about you. They only care about their agenda.
2006-11-08 15:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Smart Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your girlfriend should go to the drugstore and buy a pregnancy test so you know for sure whether or not she's pregnant.
I don't know how old your girlfriend is, but sometimes young women have very erratic menstrual cycles, and it's not necessarily something to worry about if she doesn't get her period like clockwork every month.
The most important thing is to stop having unprotected sex!!! If your girlfriend turns out not to be pregnant, talk to your parents and/or a health care provider about various methods of birth control and STD protection.
2006-11-08 13:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by kerry77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL... sorry, If you don't want to get your girl pregnant you shouldn't be having unprotected sex in the first place but you said you know that. I hope you learn a lesson. Go to planned parenthood it is confidential.
2006-11-08 13:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... why don't you and your girlfriend put your worries at ease...and buy a pregnancy test.... .it is the only way to know if she is pregnant or not!!!
Next time I suggest.. using protection !!!! Then you wouldn't have to be worried about your girlfriend being pregnant !!!! Best of Luck !!!
2006-11-08 13:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey! I am so sorry, but yes, she could very well be pregnant. She needs to take a test now. And then contact your local health department. They can tell you how to get help, and know where to go from there! Good Luck!
2006-11-08 13:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by andi_sue_storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible that she is pregnant. Anytime you have unprotected sex, there is a chance. If her peiod is late, then have her take a test to see. It is better than waiting and worrying if it turns out to be nothing.
2006-11-08 13:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by Army Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you recommend with surely no variety of start administration whatsoever. in case you're interior the seventy two hour window, flow get emergency birth control. If no longer, it somewhat is a waiting recreation to work out in case you're pregnant or no longer. the only different factor to do is flow get examined for STDs. you ought to use a condom each time, the total time any further.
2016-10-21 12:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See Planned Parenthood.
2006-11-08 13:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by Everyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋