How do you deal with people you can't stand? How do you stand up to them and tell them what you think? Because I am in a sort of sticky situation. I would love it if I could get some ideas on how to deal with these people. Thanks so much!!
2006-11-08 12:57:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stand up and speak your mind, constructively of course...look your foe in the eye, don't back down, stick by your word, mean what you say, say what you mean and to really get them be nice to them and act as if they don't bother you. Laugh at them (not literally to their face) plaster that smile on your face and when they aren't around roll your eyes and feel sorry for them.
2006-11-08 13:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will so tell you how to deal with people like this. First of all, when they talk to you, they probably have their feelings first in mind. Be the princess, whatever they say, agree with them, laugh at their jokes, be ever so gracious. They will soon be going home, you won't have to deal any more with them. But to start a fight or have an altercation with them, you know you will be seen as the bad guy. For your own self preservation, Say yes, oh yes I know exactly what you mean, for sure, it's been so nice having you, please come again, bye bye now. Go into your home, or leave theirs, whatever, nothing lost, everything to gain. Don't take people too seriously, most of them will disapoint you. Good luck sweetheart Most of these people don't really like themselves as much as you think.
2006-11-08 21:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have a lot of people I feel the same way about. Sometimes I get so angry I could rip a few phone books in half, but I cope by throwing a tennis ball at something stirty really really hard. At my private school, you can't steer clear of someone you hate because you see them every single day. They are in every one of your classes. So I just am short with them and I try my hardest to ignore them.
2006-11-08 21:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get even with people is to ignore them. If need be and you are pressed between a rock and a hard place, then you speak your mind. Just live your life, you can't live anyone else's. You can only change yourself, not anyone else. And don't spend too much time hating anyone, that only gives them power over you.
2006-11-08 21:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your " sticky situation" . I would always stand up for what I believe in ! Sometimes people don't want to her the truth about themselves and are out to hurt your feelings any which way they can ! Stand up for yourself girl !
2006-11-08 20:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tolerance
2006-11-08 20:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by truloon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever hear the saying Silence is golden? Just pretend he is not there.. No body likes to be ignored .
2006-11-08 21:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a free country tell them how you feel
2006-11-08 20:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by Fergie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off it you can't stand them, don't pretend that you do, don't invite them over, our hang out with them, if you work with them then keep it professional, if it is family, then it may be hard but just let them know that you don't like them and they are not welcome at your home. good luck. you got to be strong...
2006-11-08 21:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One, what is the situation? Depending on what it is you may get suggestions.
2006-11-08 21:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋