So I might like this guy, I am not sure though. If we were to become more than just friends it would be very weird because I am good friends with his twin sister. I don't know what to do!
2006-11-08 12:55:15 · 19 answers · asked by mini_meme173 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I ACTUALLY THINK ALL YOUR RELATIONSHIPS WILL GET BETTER WHEN YOU START A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS GUY !!!
BUT BE CAREFUL NOT TO NEGLECT ONE RELATIONSHIP OVER THE OTHER !!!
2006-11-08 12:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! im in almost the same situation, except not twin sister, older sister. well anyways, im very good friends with this guy, the first step is always be friends before u tell him that u like him( even if ur not sure) but tell his sister but make her swear to secrecy.lolz. and its always a good idea to be friends first that later on if u guys become gf and bf and break up, at least u no u guys can always be friends again and becoming friends also let u get to know him better. well gl.
2006-11-08 21:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Turtle~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure yet if you really like him i wouldn't pursue things too quickly.
But if and when you do decide you like him the next thing you should find out if he is interested in you. If he is interested, or seems like he might be you should talk to your friend. Ask her how she would feel if you started dating him.
If she says she is okay with it, and you decide he is worth the risk then go for it.
Just remember that if you break up with him, especially if it is a 'bad' break up. , it might be weird between you and your friend for a while though i doubt it would ruin your friendship.
Also know that if you and your friend 'break-up' it might be awkward between you and her brother.
Nothing is ever guaranteed. So it is important to have good communication and think things through.
2006-11-08 21:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by KittyFly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. If you are not even sure that you like him, and things would be weird if you took it further than just friendship, then don't push it further than friendship. The awkwardness between you and his sister is easily avoidable in this situation.
However, if you do like him, which seems more likely to me, or you wouldn't bother posting, and he likes you, then you should try to take it somewhere. The awkwardness won't last forever, and it could be fun. Don't be afraid of the consequences. I don't think anything too detrimental can come of this situation.
2006-11-08 20:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Electron Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to the twin that u like him just a little bit more than friends and she should be fine as for him just take things slowly and you will know if he is right for you or not.Good Luck.
2006-11-08 21:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by wizardalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend is going through the same problem. only she's already with him. i say that you should keep your love life separate from your friend life so if you guys want to get together you should be able to and if you break up or if something happens you should stay friends with his twin because she didn't have anything to do with it.
2006-11-08 20:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Coke-n-Snickers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats OK. I married my brother-n-laws brother. Two brothers marry two sisters. If she is your real friend she will be happy for the both of you. But, be careful. If you have a relationship and it doesn't work it may mess up your friendship. Make sure he's the one.
2006-11-08 21:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this before. You have to ask yourself how important your friendship with his sister is, because she will probably grow resentful of the time you spend with her brother if thisngs work out between the two of you.
I lost my best friend when he started dating my younger sister. We had the whole problem of 'well, is he here to see me or her?'
Just look before you leap. Maybe you should look further afield?
2006-11-08 21:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by Amy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is sit back and let the world around you pass by and try to get the guy you want. if you really want that guy, ask his twin and also your friend to help out.
2006-11-08 20:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might like the guy? Stick to being friends until you are 100% sure that you like him.
2006-11-08 20:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can become more than friends! Just make sure ur friend "his twin" knoes whats going on!
2006-11-08 20:57:58 · answer #11 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋