Do you think that bisexual people are bad?

Question

I'm bisexual and I get picked on and crap because of it. Do you think its right?

Answer 1

No one has the right to judge you in that way. Bi, straight, gay, we're all human beings and have the right to be treated as such. Don't take any crap from them. Live life the way YOU want to. And if you take offence, you have rights under the sexual harrassment laws.

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with being bi but in today's society you gotta choose what you want. I think it's cool but let me explain how other see it.

It's nice to have your cake and eat it too but most bisexuals are considered greedy and dirty. There is also the problem with people not telling others their sexual status and it gets confusing and rather competitive.

I mean competitive because bi sexuals like to have 3-some and if you include a str8 guy in the mix he isn't gonna want to play 2nd fiddle. One minute you guys act str8 then the next you act gay then next you just say you are trying to have fun and in all honesty it makes the gay community look bad becuase then people just think a bisexual is a confused gay person with tendencies of acting str8.

At least you are a girl and can pull it off better than a guy becuase male bi-sexuals have it way worse because of the gay stigma. At least a female can claim she' being experimentive and a str8 guy will dig it for a while since he'll be thinking with his privates. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

No its not right you get picked on because your bi. I think if your faithful to the person your seeing and honest with your bisexuality than its alright. I know its hard to come out to your lover. Some bisexuals are bad some are good same any any race or gender. Dont be so down on yourself accept who you are.

Answer 4

No. My best friend and ex-boyfriend is bi, and he's the most wonderful person I know.
He isn't promiscuous, or confused - he's had relationships with both genders, and been in love with one of each.
He's just got a lot of love inside him, and he's a really caring person, so he'd never hurt anyone. He finds that women tend to accept his sexuality more easily than either gay or straight men, I don't know why that is.
Some gay men seem to think that he's some kind of 'traitor', for sleeping with women, but it would be dishonest of him to label himself 'gay' and deny who he really is.
We all get picked on for different things - all you can do is try to rise above it and remember you're better than anyone who is too narrow-minded to accept you as you are. I hope you can be happy.

Answer 5

I've never really considered myself bad. I'm loyal and a strict monogamous, I could never be in a relationship with more than one person at the same time, and I love my girlfriend with all my heart.

I choose to be bisexual, and I'm happy with my choice. Anyone who doesn't like me or wants me to say I'm gay or straight just so that I can fit into their little standards needs to grow up. I'm not pretending to be something I'm not and neither should you, just be yourself and whille you need to be respectful to other's opinions do not let them get to you. People just have an affinity towards aggression for things they don't understand.

Answer 6

Are you happy? Are you hurting anyone else? There's your answer. To anyone who gives you ****, makes fun of you or tells you there is something wrong, you can't make a descision, or your just gay and not commiting, you tell them to go right to hell. People are frightened by others who are commited to their sexuality and it control of it, it scares them beacuse they may not be, or they feel threatened by someone who is. You are not bad, you are just being truthful to yourself. Glory in that, love yourself for that, becuse you can only really love some one if you love yourself first. You are perfect the way the Creator made you, never let anyone take it from you. Your are, bi, beautiful, vital and devine. Let the rest of the world know it!

Answer 7

As long as you don't hurt yourself and others...then there's nothing wrong with it. That's the problem with other people. They seem to place a certain standard to fit thier outlook with morality. If it's bad to their standards, then they label it bad. So it's not right to judge any person base on a bias standard.

Answer 8

No, I got a lot of bisexual friends too, most of them don't get fun of it but I hope you will find peace somewhere.

Answer 9

Nope, don't think it's bad. I'm bi, too.

Both men and women are able to love. I think to say we "have to pick one" and we "can't make up our mind" is an unfair statement. The person of our dreams could be of either sex...at least that's the way I see it.

Answer 10

NO! Bad people are bad, sexuality has nothing to do with it. People who "pick" on others because they are different are bad people. They allow their bias and fear to rule their actions.