Ok so last year my friend angela read my diary, and admitted to it. then this year, i had a very private entry that she knew about. it was on a solitary piece of paper. she said she had to go to the bathroom, and something made me look beside me. the entry was gone! i knocked on the door and asked if she'd seen it but she didn't seem to hear me. when she came out she played innocent (maybe she is...?) and helped me look for it. i went into the bathroom to look, and she seemed kind of nervous. then she said she had to go to the bathroom again. she put the vent on, but i thought i heard paper rustling in there. and she never puts that vent on? coincidence?
then she went to get her book from downstairs, and i found the entry in the bathroom. how did it get there?
there was a wet mark on it.
i confronted her and before i even finished the question she denied it.
she said that he dog had probably carried it into the bathroom, hence the wet mark.
i was kind of doubtful, but let it go
2006-11-08 12:33:35 · 10 answers · asked by Lulu F 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
so my question is, do you think she did it? now i wasn't sure she'd do such a thing (again) until yesterday, when i went into the bathroom and suspected something, only to find her reading something else private.
what do you think?
who dunnit?
2006-11-08 12:37:04 · update #1
just tell her you will skin her alive next time she reads your diary.
2006-11-08 12:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her what she thought of a person that would read her friends diary without permission! Just see what she says. Then I would certainly keep it hidden away, so there was NO chance of her finding it again! If it was her that did that, she probably would also lie, and say she would never do such a thing! I doubt if she is going to admit to it. Just find a good hiding place from now on!!!
2006-11-08 12:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by autumn wolf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd confront her, and in no uncertain terms tell her that if she won't be honest with you that she's not your friend. If she wants you to confide in her, she needs to ask you, not go behind your back and invade your privacy. If you're not sure she did read it, make something sensational up in your diary (maybe about her), and see how she responds. Alternatively, you could write her a message in your diary, or write about how the fact you think she's doing this and lying about it makes you feel. It's up to you though, but do something, as it's obviously having an effect on you and your relationship with her.
2006-11-08 13:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a talk with her, Explain your feelings on the matter and if she is a true friend she will come clean. Then when she is not there find a different hiding place for your diary. And then don't let her know about it. You could also get a notebook and create a book that both you and her write in. You have it one week then she has it another and go back and forth.
2006-11-08 12:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by pcolagirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can sit down and talk to her till your blue in the face.....If she has done this to you once and I believe twice now she will do it again and again and no telling what else
But this isn't a real friend a real friend would respect you and your private words you write, besides your that your belongings period. A friend is someone you can trust and count on no matter what.....She doesn't seem to none of these....It's hard to accept when we think this person is really our friend but a lot of things in life that are best for us are hard.
2006-11-08 12:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them it wasn't good for them to intervene and study your diary yet additionally come sparkling and clarify why you wrote what you wrote approximately them. probability is, in the event that they seem to be a particular pal of yours you have been in all probability basically mad at them approximately something stupid. clarify the situation, make an apology and tell them to their face once you have a situation wth them, otherwise do no longer leave your diary the place they could get it!
2016-10-15 13:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a better hiding spot. You know she is likely to read your private papers and diary so keep them away from her.
2006-11-09 10:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
diary is one of your privacy, dont let her to read it without ur permission. u dont wanna all people know all ur hidden secret, arent u? if my friend do that i will little bit angry and ask her not to do that again. whatever the reason she cant read my diary without my permission. and the last thing i do, is put my diary in save place that no one know, a secret place, like a closet for example.
2006-11-08 12:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by dena 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i suggest you find a new friend one that you can trust I also think you need to keep things like that hidden where she could never find especially if you know she is coming over.
2006-11-08 12:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by c0mplicated_s0ul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that don't tell anyone or you go and read her diary.
2006-11-08 12:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Masíl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋