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2006-11-08 12:33:24 · 11 answers · asked by alexis_camacho2000 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

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Drug Can Affect you Family And Friends badly.. If You Do Drugs. you become ****** Up.. Then If u Say Somthing Wrong or Do Somthing Wrong. you're Familu friends or people who care about you will try to help but you wouldnt Take it. Then it becomes worse.. u will become rapped. In the streets.. and They would be ashamed of how you are..

2006-11-08 12:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by tarafarrah 2 · 0 0

Oh please get help for the person quick! Don't give up!! Stay on the persons case as much as possible. I have a nephew who I love so much and he is in rehab and doing well. The pain all this has caused me and my sis (his mom) is so awful, we didn't give up once we found out, we were up his butt, our family bonded together and it took a few months but hes where he needs to be.It will be a life long commitment for him now and I feel very sad it will affect his life forever but I'm grateful that hes trying because I felt like he was dying and it was so terrible for me and all of his loved ones. It made me so sick inside never knowing if he would live another day.We are all attending support groups for our well being also and its been worth it.God Bless I hope it all works out for every one.

2006-11-08 12:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by linda m 3 · 0 0

If you are a person who is using drugs & want to know how you are affecting Family & Friends, then there is nothing that I can say to you because as long as you keep using, you really don't give a fu*k how they are affected.
If you are a family member or a friend of someone who is using, then I may be able to help you, because I have lived with addiction in my family.
The most operative word for those who live with an addict is FEAR. We fear the loss of our loved one through their addiction, & we fear the loss of income, love, dignity, safety, etc.
Once we recognise that the addict is no longer in charge of their own life we try to step in & take up the slack. Often we do that to the point where we are so busy managing the addicts life, that we lose focus on ourselves. We stop caring for ourselves, & we soon come to believe & accept that we no longer deserve to put ourselves 1st. We get absorbed in the addicts life by trying to protect him, or her from all of the consequenses that they must eventually face, by bailing them out of jail, or calling in sick for them, or lying to people why he/she isn't there with you. There is a term for this behaviour, & it's called Co-Dependant.
Being Co-Dependant is an addiction in itself.
It's hard for people to make the distinction between being co-dependant, & just a caring loving person, who looks after the interests of their loved one who is just going through a bad time.
The primary difference between a caring person, & a co-dependant is, a healthy caring person knows when to stop chasing the addict around in circles, where the co-dependant just keeps going no matter how futile the effort.
If my words on co-dependants has your interest then there is a very good book you need to read called "Co-Dependant No More" by Melodie Beatty.
There is much in there about how people are affected by addiction.
Take Care.

2006-11-08 13:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 1 0

It is a very sad and unfortunate thing. When someone has a problem with drugs or alcohol, it effect the whole famiily. They are not the same person you know and love and you want to do everything to make them better. Most of the time the person gets better only when they are truly ready.

2006-11-08 12:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by TrueLibra 2 · 1 0

firstly they are bad really bad for heath
also they screw you cause once the society knows ok this gal/guy is into drugs people start talking and they just dont stop. And once it reaches your friends or family its not only fireworks but also alot of shame and embarrassment that they have to face

2006-11-08 12:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by AJ 2 · 0 0

DONT DO THEM!!! they make you act completely different, and most of the time people will not llike that. i know that doing drugs hurts your family. it makes the family's life a living hell. always wondering if they are okay. it will tare your family apart. it sucks i know cause my dad did drugs and it really hurt our famiily.
drugs impare your judgement and they can also leave you brain damaged. dont do them

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2006-11-08 13:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by sarah m 3 · 0 0

My ex husband is a crack addict. He stole from me and his children. He caused my oldest to have a mental break down at 14. He has no contact with our children, now 17 & 14. Now he expects them to call him and act like everything is ok. They don't want anything to do with him any more.
Drugs destroy a lot of people.

2006-11-08 12:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Brat 2 · 1 0

well first DONT DO DRUGS!!!! it is bad ( gosh haven't people ever heard od the d.a.r.e program) ok well it puts a lot of stress on them and u could end up hurtting them

2006-11-08 12:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by Quinn 2 · 1 0

if other people breathe ur smoke in that is bad 4 there health. i believe that passive smokers die first or that i have herd they have i don't no how that is true. i think people who smoke should quite

2006-11-08 12:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0 2

They get pissed off if you dont share. Or, if you meant it the other way, they get stoned too.

2006-11-08 12:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by best_28_seconds_she_ever_had 2 · 0 2

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