I've been dating through the internet exclusively for a year now, and have been surprised, if not shocked, by how many women i've gone to bed with on the first night we met. Trust me, i'm not bragging, but rather wanting to explore the reasons why women seem to lust after sex with men they don't seem to know very well.
Don't know if I would call it sex w/strangers because we always correspond with emails & on the phone, but it still intrigues me greatly. Ladies.........care to offer any viewpoints ?????
2006-11-08 12:18:54 · 28 answers · asked by johngolfs2002 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If i was attracted to a guy i would definately sleep with him on the first date. I never wanted to get involved emotionally. I would love to stay friends and if he called back that was fine and if not that was fine too. I wanted no tangles and no headaches. I did lust after men i didnt know very well butt my thinking was i wasnt gonna get serious anyway so why not enjoy what they can offer me sexually. It worked for me.
2006-11-08 13:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by *COCO* 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My question to you would be: how many of these one time sex acts did you actually call again ? From what you've described you had conversed with all of these women via the Internet and or phone before you finally met them. Women bond through words so I'd suspect each of them in their own pathetic way thought that after all those words you shared... YOU " just might be that prince charming" they were hoping to find. What alarms me as a single, attractive, well educated women is how these women could give it up so easy in this day & age of sexually transmitted diseases. Those who lust after" it" are more animal in their behavior ,( that old reptilian brain blocks any logical processing to occur in the brain.) Those you let you: "do them" the first night were : A) seriously surrenderd because they fell in love & we all know women equate sex with love or, B) Are all the same type ( just with a different face) LOOSERS. So, macho man ....how many of these women did you ever call again? And or actually have any feelings for? Feelings of respect and admiration??? UGH...The thought "just" occurred to me ----MAYBE ALL of those women you slept with do that with all the guys they date from the interent....oh the germs ...the disease......Good luck when you test for sexually transmitted diseases. No one night stand is worth a possible death sentence...don't you agree?
2006-11-08 12:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know exactly what you mean. Although me and my fiancee met briefly in real life before we persued a relationship, the majority of our relationship was via World Of Warcraft (yeah we're dorks lol) until I finally moved out to be with him. But I am really at a loss as to what it is that makes it so exciting. Maybe it's the fact that you can get to know the other person mentally, get to know some of their inner being, and it all just builds up to that final fantasy moment when the two people finally get to share a physical moment? Just a thought, cause I'm really not sure... But it is a wonderful feeling..
2006-11-08 12:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry for answering I am a Adult Man. I think you should stop that practice or start wearing several body condoms. You are going to catch some and it will not go away.
To answer your question I think the alure might be just what you said "sex with a stranger" It does not sound like any of your online relationship are lasting too long.
2006-11-08 12:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just seems to me that it's something that has always happened, just not through the internet, that's the new part. People have always had one-night stands in the past. It's not just a guy thing, women take initiative out there now too. Remember, it takes two to tango, why do you do it?
2006-11-08 12:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly the women you are choosing are lonely and you just happen to be the lucky stud that gets them first. As to why women go to bed with a guy on a first date I can't answer that. I mean, I have done it but felt really bad afterwards. I blame alcohol on my one night thing. I talked to the guy a few times afterwards but I just felt too weird about it. Wouldn't reccommend it to anyone.
2006-11-08 12:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At a time in my life, I felt lonely and meeting guys and having affection for a night made me feel good. It didn't last long as I have never really been like that but I guess I had no respect for myself at that point. Basically, you have been talking to these ladies and obviously know them a little, but they would be at a point of desperation and probably do it for the same reasons I did.
2006-11-08 12:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by Abs 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
All I can say is maybe you are attracting the wrong kind of women. They obviously are lacking in the self-respect department. Hope you are using condoms with all these women, no telling what you might pick up as if they are doing it with you on the first night, odds are they are doing it with others as well.
2006-11-08 12:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by salstick 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tried Internet dating for a few months. Didn't do it with anyone. Never trusted anyone well enough. Pathetic, horny losers.
However, I did do that in the 80s, until I learned what AIDS was.
2006-11-08 12:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by correrafan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer that from a "i've been there" answer but most females need attention, and need to feel that you care...that you were brought on this earth for them....Once you put your heart into something whether it be in person, in letters, or even emails....they care...and now that you have them emotionally...they are ready to be there physically.....or they just want a piece of ***
2006-11-08 14:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋