My friend's parents let her do almost everything. She is only in the 7th grade and has a cellphone. She can talk to boyz and I can't but she trys to get me to call them but sometimes I do, do it. She has already starting having sex and I just made the basketball team and on my report card I made ab honor roll. I'm afraid I'll lose her as a friend. She also is always dancing in unappropiate ways and all the boyz wanna go wit with her because she has a big butt. I only have one boyfriend but he is very respectful and he doesn't like me just for my outside he also likes me from the inside as far as I know. What should I do I might not be as fast and socially active but I have alot of friends. I mean she does all this nasty butt shaking dancing at the dances at school and stuff which I can do but she has to understand I was raised in a not so ghetto way. I mean she laughs at me because I speak proper but that will get me a well educated job. I also can sing and I go to Church.
2006-11-08 11:59:53 · 4 answers · asked by puggie224 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think you should even be friends with this girl. There's nothing wrong with you at all. SHE is the one who should be ashamed of herself. You know people talk about her behind her back about what a ho she is. You're a smart girl and you have a lot going for you. Knowing how to shake your butt and sleep with guys isn't going to get her anywhere in life. You, on the other hand, actually have a chance at a future. She's going to end up pregnant, alone, and then on Welfare, living in the "ghetto", while you'll be educated and live life the way you want to. There's nothing wrong with speaking proper... it's called ENGLISH and she should learn how to speak it correctly. When I hear people speaking like this... "Yo homegurl, wuz up? we gon b chillin' in da hood, aight?" I think the person is uneducated and an idiot. (Ok, so I don't speak 'ebonics'... I'm white. lol).
2006-11-08 12:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are from two different places and you both will be going to two different places eventually. This is a friendship that cannot last. You won't be able to change her mind and you shouldn't have to change for her. Be yourself and if you find that she doesn't like you then you're simply not going to get along. There are those who complain and those who do in life. You "do" and she "complains." Any complainer will just distract a doer, so you'll need to distance yourself from her or she'll ruin your future. They're right, this "friend" of yours has all the makings of another "teen-age pregnancy." You can't help them for they just keep making problems for themselves and doing nothing about it.
You need to take your ambitions and focus on your own dreams. Help those you can but have the wisdom to know a hopeless case when you see one.
2006-11-08 12:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK Girl, here are the facts from a mans point of view.
Booty shakin sluts will get banged before they know what happens, will get knocked up and will be on welfare for the next 100 years, and will probably raise punk kids.
You have respect and morals. Thats not to say you won't make mistakes because that is a part of growing up.
Don't be stupid and don't get knocked up!!!
2006-11-08 15:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How freakin problematic is it to p.c.. out what to placed directly to an entertainment park?? Tank right (no longer white or gentle hues in case you get moist) strolling shorts (no longer BOOTY SHORTS!) that are mid thigh comfortable strolling tennis footwear and placed on socks so which you don't get blisters DONT placed on dangling jewelry that could get caught in issues rather, this could properly be a no-brainer.
2016-10-03 10:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋