I love christmas, and since I am a University student, try to keep it relatively cheap, but it is difficult to do when you have so many people to buy for. I have my boyfriend, his parents, his sister, my parents, my 4 grandparents, my brother, his girlfriend, 2 nieces, 2 kids that I babysit, my best friend, and my cousin. And I only have a small family. Is this abnormal, or does everyone buy for this many people? With all those people I end up spending almost 1000 dollars.
2006-11-08
11:37:31
·
10 answers
·
asked by
Anonymous
in
Family & Relationships
➔ Friends
Yeap, i have this problem. I have to buy for my boyfriend, my mom, dad, step dad, grandparents, step grandparents, 3 brothers, and 3 sisters. Not to mention my friends, and some coworkers. I just graduated from college, and still have very little money. What i do is spend most of my money on my boyfriend and parents, and make things for everyone else. I am somewhat artistic, i can draw okay, so i make them cards. Most people LOVE them! They love the pictures and what i say, because i only write things that are heart felt. Or i will bake them cookies. And sometimes i will just get them something little, like a little stocking filled with goodies, that isn't usually too expensive. Maybe try to be creative with what you can do and make something. Or, sometimes my brothers and sisters and i will go in on a gift together for relatives. Like buy my dad football tickets and split the cost. We did that for his birthday this year, it ends up to be a little cheaper on everyone. I hope this helps. Good Luck!
2006-11-08 11:47:18
·
answer #1
·
answered by Stark 6
·
0⤊
0⤋
I have 6 sisters, 5 aunts and uncles, 2 nieces, 1 grandparent, a God child and about 8 cousins. This can become very expensive but I enjoy giving gifts .
2006-11-08 11:43:34
·
answer #2
·
answered by m W 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
What you could end do if you need to is pick names. And it doesn't have to be spendy. There are sales out there on a weekly basis. Especially if you start thinking about buying gift's now.
And do you really need to get the kids anything? Especially if they are really young and if your on a budget, and they don't get you anything in return. I'd just worry about immediate family in who you give gift's too. I use to think I had to buy for everybody when I realized that I don't. And I don't need to get them expensive gifts either.
The other thing is. Instead of giving for an individual person or kid. Get for an individual Family included the kids so that it can be a family gift. Especially if you are on your own. And espeically since i'm sure they don't expect you to make a lot of money since you go to college and on a budget. I"m sure they understand. Best of luck!
2006-11-08 13:37:51
·
answer #3
·
answered by jrealitytv 6
·
0⤊
0⤋
At one time I had to buy gifts for 78 people. Too much money. Try making gifts for some of the people candy, cookies, knit scarf. For the kids, go to the dollar store and get some items there. For your brother get McDonald's gift certificate. Grandparents matching key chains or luggage tags. Boyfriend, up to you.
2006-11-08 11:57:23
·
answer #4
·
answered by kny390 6
·
0⤊
0⤋
take away the not-related-to-you people. like your boyfriend's sis and parents. you don't have to get gifts for the kids that you babysit, either. that's just too much people and you will need to save it up for something better. you should let the kids you babysit's parents give you a present cause they have to thank you for helping them. also, you don't have to get them exactly what they want. just keep it simple and spend as little money as you can. but if you don't want to let even the unnecessary people go, then consider writing cards.
2006-11-08 11:46:03
·
answer #5
·
answered by Jessica 3
·
1⤊
0⤋
not me. Now that I live on my own, I send cards to all family and friends and send gifts to the children (niece, god-children), but I've only got 3 to worry about there. My best friend gets the majority of my gifting...
Actual gifts cost me 100-300 max...I don't have the kind of $ to shell out.
2006-11-08 11:41:56
·
answer #6
·
answered by deuciecabbage 1
·
0⤊
0⤋
Christmas is not anything to do with both Christianity or Islam nevertheless it does have it is origins within the midwinter pageant and lots of different almost pagan rites however considering the fact that a lot of this is a get together of nature alternatively than faith each person will have to be equipped to revel in it and be pleased in combination in spite of faith! The historical European pagans celebrated the midwinter pageant and a quantity of alternative gala's lengthy earlier than Christianity ever existed! Babylonians celebrated the banquet of the Son of Isis with gluttonous consuming and ingesting, and present giving and the goddess of fertility, love, and warfare. The Romans held a pageant on 25 December known as “Dies Natalis Solis Invicti, celebrating their possess god Sol Invictas – PAGAN! The Persian god Mithras, the Syrian solar god Elah Gabal, the German Sol, the Greek Helios and the Mesopotamian Shamash. But additionally Saturnalia, honouring Saturn, the God of Agriculture. The legislation courts and faculties have been closed. No public industry would be transacted an that is wherein the vacations originated - ALL PAGAN! Wax tapers got via the extra humble to their superiors. The beginning of the Christmas candle - PAGAN! In Rome corporations of costumed went from condominium to condominium interesting their humans. And this used to be wherein the carolling Christmas culture originated PAGAN! Statues of the Mother and lover or Mother and son have been paraded by way of the streets no longer handiest in Italy but in addition in Africa, Spain, Portugal, France, Germany and Bulgaria. Thus, the symbolism of the Heavenly Virgin and the little one youngster paraded on a annually foundation aren't of Christian beginning. They stem from the Mother-goddess faith, which could be very historical ENTIRELY PAGAN! Scandinavian international locations celebrated Yule honouring Thor – PAGAN! In Germania (no longer Germany) they celebrated midwinter night time adopted via 12 wild nights of consuming and ingesting. The 12 days of Christmas PAGAN! The church below Pope Julius I declared that Christ’s beginning might be celebrated on December 25 in 350 AD so as to take a look at to hijack the PAGAN gala's nevertheless it used to be greatly not noted. Christians didn't fairly have fun Christmas till 378 nevertheless it used to be then dropped in 381 and no longer resurrected till four hundred. The Christmas tree stems from pagan culture and formality surrounding the Winter Solstice, which integrated the usage of holly boughs ivy and different foliage as an edition of pagan tree worship. Holly and ivy represented female and male. Mistletoe used to be regarded a sacred plant, and the customized of kissing below the mistletoe started as a fertility ritual - all PAGAN! Santa Claus got here from the Dutch “Sinterklaas” and used to be a tall determine using a white horse by way of the air and on the whole followed via Black Peter, an elf who punished disobedient youngsters. Also the beginning of the reindeer, sleigh and the elves ALL PAGAN! The today's pink lined Santa used to be precipitated via coca cola! AMERICA ACTUALLY BANNED CHRISTMAS a couple of occasions and is the originator of the expression “Happy Holidays” which got here approximately considering that of the pagan origins of Christmas to comprise all religions and traditions! The Venerable Bede, an early Christian creator mentioned that the Christian church absorbed Pagan practices whilst it determined the populace unwilling to quit the gala's. Thus plenty of what Christians now see as Christians practices are correctly pagan! Christmas is the time of yr christians attempt to turn out simply how pagan they have got emerge as!
2016-09-01 09:27:16
·
answer #7
·
answered by shiva 4
·
0⤊
0⤋
christmas isnt about presents or money or power. its about being with family and friends cherishing the time we have with our family and friends and thank for what we are thankful for and celebrate the birth of christ.
2006-11-08 12:35:44
·
answer #8
·
answered by mamas_grandmasboy06 6
·
0⤊
0⤋
i have 16 people to buy gifts for.
2006-11-08 11:40:00
·
answer #9
·
answered by S 5
·
0⤊
0⤋
nope i never buy xmas presents, partly cuz i got no money
2006-11-08 11:39:42
·
answer #10
·
answered by My dad ate my homework 3
·
0⤊
0⤋