My best friend is now dating my ex she and i had the agreement that we would never date anyone the other was interested in or had ever been involved with. Well she told me she was dating him and wanted me to go with them to the movies i told her i had a b/f so she invited me and my new b/f to go we went and everytime i turned around to talk to her she would grab him and start making out. she would make sure i was looking everytime she kissed him. my b/f said that when i turned back around she would automatically stop. Finally at the end of the night we went to play pool she pulled me aside and told me "i know how hard it must be for you to see me and brian together i don't want you to be uncomfortable". Honestly i'm fine with them dating that means she won't want to go out with me and my b/f as a 3rd wheel...Do you think she is trying to make me jealous?
2006-11-08 11:31:22 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yea isnt it obvious? first of all it was wrong of her to go out wit someone that you went out with cuz thats not a real good friend..n if she said that its hard for you to see her n yo ex together then why did she invite you to go to the movies in the first place..?
2006-11-08 12:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by shygurl_193 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I defientley think that! I'm in a bit of a situation like that right now too, and I really know what it feels like. She's not a true friend and she's probably jealous of you for whatever reason so she's trying to make you feel bad/jealous in return. I would distance myself from her and do not tell her you're secrets because she'll use them against you. I can say this all with confidence cause the same thing is happening to me. I really hope that it works out for you! The key is don't react! I know it sounds sooo cliche but really trust me on this one :D.
Good luck and God bless!
2006-11-08 20:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by sugarandspice13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you calling this girl your bestfriend? she's more lika a foe you need to really make some drastic changes cause if not she'll be hanging on your new boyfriends arm next...and what i mean by that is every boy you date...she'll end up messing with them why? because she has a personal problem with you and it's jealousy...she don't like you or else she wouldnt try to hurt you...it just amazes me how some ppl like to stick around just to make your life miserable hell! especially the ones who we think are close to us...but oops! i forgot those are the ones who do it to us the most....get rid of her she's not your friend and what ever problems she's suffering from she wants you to suffer right along with her...she's miserable and misery love company that's why she invited you along to the movies....dump her cause far as i'm concerned your friendship was over soon as she went out with your ex...how disrespectful!
2006-11-08 19:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be if she kisses the guy everytime u turn around tht would not be a coincidence. Just let her play her game she will probably get the picture eventually that you dont really give a ****.
2006-11-08 19:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Epidemic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely she is trying to make you jealous to see if you still like the boy. If ya'll had a agreement why is she still going out with him.....If I were you she would get a little speech from me because I would have felt mad, lied to, and betrayed.
2006-11-08 20:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by puggie224 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course she is. It seems that she may be a little jealousy of you and she is doing everything in her power to make you feel worse than she does. I suggest to you that you leave her alone. You don't need people with that type of negativity in your life
2006-11-08 19:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by Missy_Eye's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,you don't need to be around someone like that.that's how people get hurt.cut her loose and have the last laugh at the same time.
2006-11-08 19:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares, if she is than dont give in to her game. If shes not, than she really likes the guy.
2006-11-08 19:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by flesh_of_daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she is, she's not sounding like a very good friend. she's not respecting you or your feelings. talk to her and see what she has to say.
2006-11-08 19:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely...why else would she do this to you? a true friend would respect your feelings, and not try to 'show you up 'thing...let her and him go-and move on to your own thing, forget about them...
2006-11-08 19:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by fallen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋