My girlfriend says someone else is her soulmate...but...?

Question

There's a twist, She's lesbian, he's a guy and she doesn't want him or anyone else other than me so she claims, but she also says she cares about him as much as she does me, what the hell does that mean?

She tells everyone she hates men, and she can't even stand to talk about it , I don't know about being bi

Answer 1

she is playing you! look beyond her games. if she cant deside then you should not have to be part of a love triangle.

Answer 2

I think she's playing the 'bi' card to try and make you jealous. She's playing with your head and your heart - no way to treat someone you are supposed to care about.
She says she hates men and is clearly being hypocritical. Have a break and tell her to sort out herself, there;s no use hanging around if it's just going to prolong the inevitable and cause more pain for you. (easier said than done, but do you want to be with a hypocrite, and thus a liar?)

Answer 3

How do she know someone else is her soulmate? And if you are her partner, why is she telling this to you? Is she trying to make you jealous or is she playing games with your emotions? Whatever it is you need to find out the answer, if you plan to have a future with this person.

Answer 4

Sounds to me like she's confused. I hate it when women get like that, from one day to the next they don't know what they want. i think it's wrong for her to tell you that someone else is her soulmate. There are plenty more fish in the sea, so maybe you should try finding one that can get as emotionally attached to you as you can to them.

Answer 5

it means, you're Ellen Degeneres, and you've been seeing Ann Heche. I'm thinking soulmate is pretty heavy juju, and it sounds like you're one foot out the door.

Answer 6

It means she doesn't know what she wants. Leave her and move on with your life. You shouldn't waste your life waiting for her to make up her mind.

Answer 7

she may be bi