How do I deal with a girl bully?

Question

Ok, I'm a little on the chubby side and sorta short too. Lately, Ive been getting picked on by a black girl named Tracy who is a bit older than yours truly. Anyway, she is always calling me junk like 'punk *** little white boy' and stuff....She's a girl and I'm a dude and she makes fun of me cause I come from a good family and her moms on welfare and all that. She hate me cause I'm rich. Anyway, the other day she started kinda pushing me in front of everybody....I wanted to kinda cry....(Shut up to the haters out there)...I'm scared..What should I do?

Oh and the only reason she is in our private school is cause of her dumb grades...she has to drive all the way from some gheto somewhere.

screw you and your mom rgz!!! DAMN, can never get any serious responses on here....

Answer 1

In case you guys out there didn't read what this boy wrote, he said that the bully girl is the one naming his race out when she picks on him. He's only commenting on the situation so you are all aware of what is really going on.
Go to your Guidance Counselor at school and tell them what's going on. Tell them you want it to be handled in such a way that you're not embarrassed in front of others or singled out by Tracy or her friends. They could possibly set something up that is innocent, such as having someone around to secretly monitor the situation, wherever it occurs most. Chances are, if she's bullying you, she's also bullying others. So go get some advice from your school counselor. That's what they are there for. If you don't do something, the behavior from the bully will continue. You should also point out to the counselor that she is making racist remarks to you. That is definitely a no-no. She wouldn't allow anyone to do that to her and get by with it, I'd bet. Don't forget that you are a valuable person, and don't ever let anyone belittle you or damage your self-esteem. I know it hurts, life is very painful sometimes. But get the fight that must be inside you out, and do what you have to do to take care of yourself. I'm sorry to say this, but people in the world can be very cruel, at all ages, so you will continue to come across people like this your whole life. So deal with it head-on right now, and don't forget that you are valuable. Keep your chin up, fight back appropriately if you can, don't let anyone destroy your pride in yourself (don't give this bully that much control and power over you), and always, always take care of yourself.

Answer 2

My mom always told me to just ignore people like that, and you know what it usually works! If she sees that it no longer bothers you that she makes fun of you, she'll move on. The reason she's treating you like that is because she's getting a rise out of you. You need to be calm and hold back those tears until you are FAR away from her.

There is nothing fun about a bully, but she will get bored of you if you stay away from her and when she's around just walk away. Don't talk back, If she pushes you don't push back. Leave her alone and if it persists then I'd let someone know what's going on. You can always tell someone. It would make the situation a little uncomfortable for a while but at least it could bring it to an end if the adults at school made precautions to protect you from this nasty little b*tch.

All this arguing has nothing to do with race, she is just spouting off names that she thinks will hurt you. Stay strong and you may not realize it now, but this will actually make you stronger in the end. BUT, while you're working through this do not name-call back. Be the better person and you're bound to get out of this in one piece.

Answer 3

Well I suppose you are kind of young! Anyways, she is only bullying you beacause:
a) she is embarassed about being in this school with all these rich people with tons of money! OR
b) because she has personal problems at home

Bullying is never a "un serious" problem! Tell a teacher/trusted adult or give an annoymous call to a bullying hotline (You can find one by doing a Google Search)

Try Kids Helphone : www.kidshelpphone.com

Answer 4

A) Man-up B) If someone is bullying you, you must stand up for yourself. You don't want people thinking you're a p u s s y.
C) Pay a senior or someone big from your school to kick her a s s or scare the s h i t out of her. Like a bodyguard or take martial arts. But don't injure her, you will be sued by the ghetto dwellers and you will be called racist.

Answer 5

the concern is, people won't have confidence you with the aid of fact she's shorter and a woman. What you ought to do is get information of this, so have certainly one of your acquaintances deliver a camcorder or some recording gadget alongside so as which you would be able to checklist those assaults as information, and then bypass to the police. Make so mistake, it is no longer bullying, it is harassment and attack, and you will and could take criminal action against her. If anyone of her acquaintances tries to make you out to be a liar, refer them on your very own criminal representative.

Answer 6

Even if it means an *** whippin, never let someone touch you. Size is not a sign of toughness. If talking doesn't work and at your age for some reason it doesn't, be prepared to beat dat ***. Even if you lose make her remember she was in a fight so at least she will respect you. Hire me to buss her sh*t and I'll toss her like a bag of oreos.

Answer 7

You need to stand up to her and show her your not willing to be intimidated. I know it will be tough but bully's only understand one language. I was very quiet in school but because i was different in the clothes i wore i got picked on but eventually i couldn't take anymore and stood up to a group of 3. i was afraid but it worked. Because i showed them i wasn't an easy target they left me alone. Good luck.

Answer 8

The names she calls you you can try to ignore. But if she's getting physical with you, you really should tell a teacher or an adult so that this can be stopped. I'd hate for this to escalate further.

Answer 9

u need to look the other way and not let people get the best of you...

and what does her race have anything to do with it? that is why u are not getting any serious responses...

people always want to draw the race card...guess it is human nature (in the immature beings)

Answer 10

well u should never allow some1 to put there hands on u, ask ur self what r u doing to make her lash out 8 u? do she treat others like this? if u cant think of not one single thing that u r doing wrong then go tell someone... but the way that u r telling ur story sounds like u r a jerk as well as she is. y u gotta call out her race? y u gotta say shes dum and on welfare and down degrading things like that? maybe if u stop being such a rich snob then ur big as* wont get picked on. try to be a nice guy cause from the sounds of it u r a spoil as* raceist kid. change ur ways stop acting like u belong to the kkk and maybe she'll leave u alone. i hate to make kids feel bad but u r just begging for it, u should be afarid of a dum black girl whos on welfare cause shes always mad that she has to deal with snobbish rich kids who think that they are better than her, just cause her family is on hard times ur luck she dont kick ur as* and take ur lunch $$$ since ur telling evey1 that shes on WELFARE. and what do her being on welfare has anything to do with u? my advice is stop being the as* whole u sound like on the net and act like ur a human and be nice, she will leave u alone if u stop talking about her. thats all it is ur mouth is too big just because u feel u r rich , which u r not cause u dont have a job ur mom n dad maybe rich, they just share a small portion with u. r u a punk!!!!!!!!!!!!!! maybe u need to check ur self and the way that u talk to other ppl.i say that cause u did not have to say how dumm she is and that shes on welfare maybe u give Tracy a reason to bully u. but seriously tell someone cause u need help. i love all kids no matter what , but ppl should not bully other ppl 8 all. my heart do go out to u cause if this is the way u go around talking to ppl or treating them like u are better than them... baby boy i advise u to loose weight. cause not only will black Tracy bully u HILLBILLIE JOEANN LEANN SMITH will beat the f out of u. so now go tell the counsolor that u have this problem with Tracy before she realizes that u r now talking about her on the internet. lolololol