I go to a school for boys that have anger problems and are really strong. there's about 200 boys that go there. So you'd think it wouldn't be a problem. But there is, all the girls make fun of me or are scared or me because I'm the only girl that goes to that school. I can beat up most of the guys there but that doesn't mean I want to. I can't make any friends or boyfriends because everyone is scared of me. What do I do!?
2006-11-08 10:42:01 · 14 answers · asked by mysteriousmystery 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't listen to what other people say. They don't know you and you seem like a nice person to me. Maybe you need to change your image slightly to help with the first impressions people make. If you try to make a good impression and people listen to what others say, you should hang out with different people. I have anger problems too, so I know that it sucks when people judge you based on your mistakes rather than who you are. I had to start at a new school and it was hard to meet people, but I finally met a few and got along well there. If a school change isn't a possibility, you should try to make friends with the guys in your school. Then, people will see you with all these guys and they'll be kind of jealous, especially if you guys hang out a lot. It's hard to be friends with girls. Trust me! I hope I helped and I hope life gets a little easier.
2006-11-08 10:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start by slowly changing your behavior. Don't fight unless they hit first. Don't start anything, walk away when ever possible. If people start seeing you won't hurt or bully them then they may want to start being friends. I am not sure of the whole situation, but with any problem the start to solving it is changing the damaging behavior. What ever you are doing to make people scared STOP avoid bad situation. There was a girl in my neighborhood who use to fight everybody and fight the boys too, we were somewhat friends. I say somewhat because i was scared of her too. but i was friendly with her and we never fought and I think if you show people you can be kind and sweet, things will start falling in place. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-08 10:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by calenderchic0271 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because your outward behaviour has turned them away. Start changing your behaviour..be friendly...count to 10 before your anger gets the better of you.
Look into the mirror and ask yourself this question.
Will I want to befriend someone whose tempers always flare up so ever easily ?
2006-11-08 10:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like umay have been bullying people around, maybe u need to change your attitude toward people and act more like a young lady,and while your doing that, consentrate more on doing your school work, after all that is what u r there for , to learn,good luck
2006-11-08 10:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can be so mean...You would think they could be nicer but they just don't know how to be..You just have to wait there will be someone for you who will come into your life when you least expect it so hang in there
2006-11-08 10:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you but u shouldn't worry about what people say because i think they are heatin on you cause they see that u r doin some thing they r not and a nothing they crazy to think of you that way they are not up there doin what you doin.
2006-11-08 10:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmine G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the tire iron in your backpack at recess.
2006-11-08 10:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out, be happy. People will be attracted to you if you are. Take care, hope everything works out for you (I'm sure it will) :)
2006-11-08 10:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Devon M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe they think u r mean cause u do attend that school. try to be nice
2006-11-08 10:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by 1plum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cool your jets...and act nicer to ppl and don't look so mean.
2006-11-08 10:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋