So here's the story: My best friend is a girl and I am also friends with her ex, who also happens to be one of my best guy friends. Throughout their relationship she seemed to avoid me, and I feel like she broke up with him because she thinks that there was possibly something going on between me and him. How can I confront her about this and regain her trust and friendship?
( P.S. There was nothing going on between me and him)
2006-11-08 10:19:10 · 10 answers · asked by lilly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her exactly what you've said here. That you're concerned about losing her friendship and you want her to know that there was nothing going on between you and her ex, especially since the two of you are best friends. If she truly is your best friend she will listen to you and understand that you wouldn't do such a thing. These are things that just make relationships stronger, so approach it from a loving, positive point of view and let her know how much she means to you and that nothing was going on between you and he ex whatsoever.
2006-11-08 10:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd talk to her and let her know nothing is going on! The same thing happened to me not that long ago but now were friends.
2006-11-08 18:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Trista.Biotchh.Haha. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just talk to her, bring it up in a conversation...and make sure you let her know that there is nothing going on, and she shouldn't have a reason not to trust you...
2006-11-08 18:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Twizz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do u still wanna be her best friend when she cant respect u and trust u.
I feel its no point having a friend like that and definately not a best friend.
But make sure u do tell her that its not done that u disrespect me wid that kind of a accusation
2006-11-08 18:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by AJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is talk to her and ask her what is wrong. When (if) she tells you just talk about it. Apologize if she thinks you've done something wrong. Write her a letter telling her how much her friendship means to you.
2006-11-08 18:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels like you were more of his friend. But I would definately try to talk to her about it. If she seems receptive then hopefully you'll get to work things out.
2006-11-08 18:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
put it out there, but you need to let her make the move on her terms. she might be thinking that you're one of the friends her boyfriend got in the breakup. let her know that's not true. unless you did do that. then scrape your shoe and walk on.
2006-11-08 18:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try talking with her alone and ask her if you guys can b friends again
2006-11-08 18:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by JoJo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take her out to dinner and talk about it
2006-11-08 18:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
life goes on...go your separate ways, that was thoughtful of her but it has to do more then just that
2006-11-08 18:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by sisT27 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋