After I saw her cheating, what should I do..?

Question

I have one great friend who takes the same class together.

We helped each other whenever we needed help, and I really liked her before I saw something in the class.

Yesterday, I saw her cheating during a unit test. I was able to see what she was doing not only becuz I sat next to her, but becuz rest of the class including me had already wrote the test before. So we were doing other assignments.

Anyway, I saw she kept looking on her binder. When a teacher moved close to her, she closed it suddenly and after the test, while I didn't know what to do with her, she asked my test result. (she always asks my test result..) I said that I didn't know cause the marks were not posted yet, but today, I knew she got better marks than mine.

Frankly, she makes me so upset, but I still want to believe she is a good person..

Can your guys give me some advices?

Answer 1

i would talk to her about it, i mean everyone cheats at least once in their life, but if it is really bothering you then just talk to her about it..

Answer 2

.don't you think that the teacher doesn't know that the better grade was false and that it's only make believe in the class rooms and if the whole thing blows up and stigmatizes the girl at this age she will never have the confidence to keep going.guys like dog eat dog stuff girls like to bullshyt the bullshytters and not get stuck in the stuff. sometime you have to let someone else slide in order to keep them in the game, what do you really think would happen if the teacher pulled her and her reference material in class and made her eat crow in front of everybody, there are some times that the world just doesn't care to have a full blown parent teachers meeting at a given point in time,really in fact the same teacher could pull somebody every time they test and be out of a job because of it. the teacher has to play it loose enough to see that everybody can't play as well as some others do and girls do get a second chance because they are the weaker sex as the soft approach goes. if she like you that don't make her all bad, think you can show her that the teacher could have brought her down might help her slow up on sliding in the class, because you know The teacher could have slammed her

Answer 3

I think you're trying to convicne yourself she's a good person. I'm not saying she isn't, but you seem to know better, deep down.

If she cheated on the test, you don't need to tell a teacher about it, but you should talk to her if it bothers you. Tell her she didn't deserve the mark she got, and you know why. Maybe you should re-evaluate if it's worth being her friend.

Answer 4

Don't congratulate her on acheiving a higher mark, and if she says something about it, just tell her its always easy with the notes at hand. She has to live with it herself. It would be understandable that you would be a bit reserved with her and hopefully she will realize why.

Answer 5

dont worry about it everybody cheats once in awhile its a normal thing that every ones does no matter how good of a student they are

Answer 6

Turn the cheater in. They will never learn if all they ever do is cheat.

Answer 7

If she is your gf, then you should be able to talk w/ her. If she doesn't share your same values, then she isn't your gf.