She is so bitter-sweet, She is very happy to everyone as long as she has everything her way. She can tell you exactly how she feels even if it is not very nice, yet if you tell her something or offer her advice she will tell the entire family and totally blow everything out of proportion? Help? Good advice anyone. I have to see her she only lives a few blocks away from me. How do I cope?
2006-11-08 10:00:38 · 10 answers · asked by Serious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Other than moving away (which I think I would consider), I would try to manage seeing her only in small doses. Dont go to every family thing when she will be there, select what you go to.
2006-11-08 10:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This may be the time for the sibling (who is the connection between the 2 of you) to step in and set this straight.
2006-11-08 10:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by dano 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we allow people to control us. take back the control. you know how she is, don't offer her advice, and very politely decline her's. operative phrase though, very politely. she is still your spouse's sister, the aunt to your children, and your neighbor. you will have a relationship with this woman probably the rest of your life or at least as long as your marriage lasts. don't let her sabotage it.
2006-11-08 10:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're extremely the single at fault. LMAO i cant trust you reported that to her, you're the waekest link in this chain of kinfolk that replaced into so loving formerly you got here visiting attempting to get in her kinfolk to get heer brothers funds shame ON YOU
2016-11-28 22:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time she tells you how she wants something to be done, tell her "NO" sternly and that you'd do it your own way. Let her blow herself up. Let her realise she is not your boss.
2006-11-08 10:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by Calculus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, be one of those people that say, yes, I know or NO?! ReALLy?!....Don't offer advise, don't suggest anything, become a blond....(NO OFFENSE LADIES) and let her be in the "spot-light" that's all she wants...
2006-11-08 10:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by sred 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involve with her too much. Try and keep yourself as much as possible unless it involves you and she should get the hint.
2006-11-08 10:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mimy ImFurst 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could help but sorry youll just have to deal with it. Wait until I tell her you asked this question about her
2006-11-08 10:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
tell her how you feel.
2006-11-08 10:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by david w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your husband should put her n her place if you cant..............
2006-11-08 10:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by stephanie f 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋