Have you ever found a friend to be lying to you about....?

Question

their whole existance? I mean,....like, did you ever have a friend that you truly admired and later you found that they were lying to you all along about everything that they were about? If you did,...what did you say to them when you found out? Did you confront them...or call them on it...I had a couple of friends like this, and it was really sad to me that they felt that they had to lie to me, to win my friendship..so I never said a word back...I can't help but wonder, did I do the right thing by not saying anything to them?..

Answer 1

I had a friend very much the same. But I was unable to keep the charade going for her once I found out. I eventually got tired of listening to her spew nonsense and just brushed her off and didn't even bother interacting. She quickly got the messege when she realized I wasn't biting on her hook. She slinked away on her own but hooked up others to do the same. No remorse. I Sometimes think people who do that don't have all their ducks lined up and honestly don't think they are doing much wrong.

Answer 2

i had this guy friend in high school who had a story for everything. at first i believed him, because obviously you do that with new friends, but then it just started seeming crazy. he then started trouble a lot..always was lying and causing fights between other friends for the safety of his friendship. i eventually confronted this person, not mean, but in a soft way, so it would be obvious that he hurt me and so that there wasn't any real reason to get mad at my wonder. people like that never change..so once he said he would change, i tried, and it always ended up the same way. you don't need friends like that. all they want is attention and we can't feed them that. good luck with your friend. =)

Answer 3

I have already good friend since middle school. I started to find out why she still tell me stupid lies. So, I decided to end our friendship. You did right thing but I did wrong thing. Why? Because I did fight with her and asked her lots of questions. I guess that is all I have to say.