Then the thought came I haven't been thinking about her. Then I thought about her for a little while, then got distracted again. Is anyone else in this situation? Has anyone got past it, and how long did it take?
2006-11-08 09:40:51 · 7 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you sound pretty normal to me... the biggest key is to just keep distracting yourself, don't give into it. It does get better, slowly. How long? No one can say. All I know is that I was devastated, thought I was gonna die, wanted to die... and now im remarried and happier than ever before.
2006-11-08 09:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by czekoskwigel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does take time. The amount of time depends on how you deal with your feelings. DO take some time to think about her. DO cry or yell or what ever you need to do to get it out. Then get busy going on with your life. Unfortunately the amount of time will be different with each relationship. Just make sure you know how you feel and be honest with your self no matter what every one else may be telling you.
2006-11-08 17:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by snowhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think about a lot of past relationship and then life goes on , just like it will for you, there is no time limit on the mind,you act on it or you go on
2006-11-08 17:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never tried to figure out how long it would take until one day it hit me...(I have had several long term relationships)...that it usually takes me as long to get completely over her as I spent with her. It sucks, I know. Good Luck.
2006-11-08 17:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's the natural way life takes you. If it all seemed as if it only happened yesterday for the rest of your life it would be forever hell!
2006-11-08 17:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by diana - b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do grow out of these things., depending on where you intend to take the relationship. The more you concentrate on it, the more unbearable.. Focus on other areas of life.
2006-11-08 17:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
takes ages sometimes years but you think of them less and less as time goes by
2006-11-08 17:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋