I think I like girls, but I dont feel like I want anyone to know. I feel like they wont accept me if I tell them, I have tried to tell them but I couldnt do it? I feel like if I tell them, and then find out I really dont like girl(becuase I am unsure) they wont feel comfortable around me.? help?!
2006-11-08 09:33:33 · 14 answers · asked by ocfan 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well your never gonna know how bad you want to swim unless you rip off your clothes and dive right in, but otherwise I would say that any woman would welcome a Bi-curious woman with open arms and everything else just about, but if they like you great if they dont Oh well, just be yourself and dont worry about what they all think or say, afterall,, they at one time were in the same spot you are now,,, Which way, high road or low road, Str8 road or Bi-road, do what you wanna do and what feels right to you in your heart and soul,, Go Get'em girl, best of luck to you
2006-11-08 13:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea how old you are...if your young it could be a phase. If you aren't sure, don't rush into telling someone. Might be easier to wait until someone else makes the first move then see how you feel about it.
I have friends that are gay and it makes no difference to me but I know younger people whom it bothered when they found out their friends were gay.
You'll just have to wait and let nature take it's course to see how you really feel about women. Whether gay or not, you have to have a spark from both sides for it to work.
2006-11-08 09:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going through a questioning phase regarding sexuality, and it is ABSOLUTELY normal. Sharing information like that with others can be scary. You may want to locate a Gay-Straight Alliance or a Sexual Minority Youth Support Group in your area. Attendance at one of these sessions will not mean that you've decided what your true self wants, but it will give you a place to discuss your feelings free of judgment.
2006-11-08 09:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Best advice - honey - is go online and go to CRAIGSLIST. find yur city & country and then go to WOMEN FOR WOMEN section & read the ads., try post your own ad. It's free of charge. you'll meet some nice girl.
But don't just talk to some girls you know and mention that you like girls that's too much for them to handle. they have to gradually find out the discreet way - not from you broadcasting the news to them. They may turn against you as a person & avoid you. You never know.
SO are we clear about this now ????? I want you to succeed.
2006-11-08 09:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're unsure about your sexuality and want to, tell some of your friends. The people you're better off not being around will leave and your real friends will stick by you as you figure out your sexuality.
2006-11-08 10:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just like most of us lesbian or bi people, it takes time to figure out what you are. Once you are sure in your heart you'll be ready to tell everyone. So wait and dont force the issue with your self. Just enjoy life as it comes.
2006-11-08 10:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you find a girlfriend and spend some time with her,you will know whether it's ok or not to be with girls. nobody can tell you what you feel. if you were to ask a psichologist,you would just be telling that person what you already know,and listening to yourself saying it. so it's all you,really. go ahead,make a move. best wishes,a concerned citizen.
2006-11-08 09:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by markusrosso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way. I have not told anyone except two of my friends. I am scared other girls will not want to be my friend or make fun of me.
Well, the best thing to do is come out when you are ready. If you do not want to do it now, then don't.
2006-11-08 09:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club darlin'!
I'll make sure they get your toaster oven out in the mail to you as soon as possible!
Honey, we've all been there. It's totally normal to feel awkward about your sexuality. Everyone, even straight people, have that period of adjustment with the realization of sexuality.
Take it slow, learn to accept who you are, learn to like yourself for who you are no matter what that is.
Always remember your MORE than just what gender you are attracted to. That's only a tiny part of everything makes you who you are.
2006-11-08 09:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, you may be feeling these feelings but no they aren't natural, maybe you are feeling rejected (or have been) and can't stand being around guys. God didn't make gay babies, this is a choice you will regret making..you are not evil or bad. You just have feelings and a past you need to work out.
2006-11-08 09:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ellise T 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋