Why is there something wrong being a narcissist?

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with being a narcissist as long as it serves to achieve a goal and not become a permanent personality trait.Sometimes we may have to love ourselves above and beyond even our parents or spouse in order to become a better individual relative to the people around us who are important to us.Once that goal is achieved,self love should be modified to balance the spiritual environment of other human activity within the active spiritual environment.

Answer 2

Thats the same as asking whats wrong with being selfish, because thats a big part of what it means to be truly narcissistic. You only care about yourself, your appearance, your life, no one elses.

Answer 3

There’s nothing wrong with being a narcissist. For example I rule so much and everybody knows it, and of course I have no role model in life since I’m so perfect and don’t need one. Take this example… I’m elite, I’m Mr. Perfect, I’m a total genius, there’s no’one like me, not even Superman. THEREFORE it’s OK for me to be a fan of myself since all the other people are complete morons compared to my divinity. It’s ok to praise me and bring me gifts since you all like me and admire me, and you all follow me whatever I say, you little funny monkey puppets.

Answer 4

Nothing wrong with it. Don't listen to these bleeding hearts on here. You only have one life. Live it for you, and love who you are. Love who you are more than anyone else can love you.

Answer 5

its not really fun to think that the world revolve around you isnt it?....narcissistic people are....people who only love themselves....omg..can u imagine getting hooked up with that kind of person..it will be like..me me me and yes...me

Answer 6

Marry one, then ask

Signs and symptoms – Narcissism – Mayo Clinic:

Narcissism itself is a personality trait, a much higher regard for and love of oneself than for others. The word "narcissism" comes from a character in Greek mythology. Narcissus, a handsome youth, doesn't think any of his female suitors are worthy of his beauty. When the gods condemn him to look at his reflection in a pool, he stares at himself lovingly for so long that eventually he simply withers away and dies.

Pathological narcissism
Narcissistic personality disorder — is a persistent inability to establish a realistic, stable self-image, therefore creating an overdependence on others to regulate their self-esteem. This unrealistic self-image affects how people with this disorder behave and interact with others.

Signs and symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder may include:
Grandiose sense of one's own abilities or achievements
Fantasies about having exceptional power, attractiveness or success
Sense of belonging to an exclusive group of people who truly understand each other
Need for constant praise
Expectations of special treatment
Exploitation of other people
Lack of empathy for other people
Envy of other people or a belief that you are the subject of other people's envy
Haughty or arrogant behaviors

Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder may come across as conceited or snobbish. They often monopolize conversation. They may belittle or look down on people they perceive as inferior. When they don't receive the special treatment to which they feel entitled, they may become very impatient or angry.

People with narcissistic personality disorder tend to seek out individuals whom they perceive as equal to their own self-image or to whom they attribute the same special talents and qualities they see in themselves. They may insist on having "the best" of everything — car, athletic club or social circles.

Their personal relationships and interactions are driven by the need for admiration and praise. Consequently, people with narcissistic personality disorder value others primarily according to how well those individuals affirm their unrealistic self-image. This limited value of others usually means that people with the disorder aren't interested in or aren't capable of perceiving the feelings or needs of others. They may take advantage of other people to make themselves look as good as they imagine.

On the other hand, seeking admiration also makes people with narcissistic personality disorder vulnerable to criticism. If someone criticizes an individual's contribution to a project at work, for example, he or she will perceive this comment as an assault on an image that needs to be protected at all costs and may respond with feelings of shame, humiliation or sadness or may express rage, disdain or defensive behaviors.

Answer 7

if youre full of yourself theres no room for anybody else and thats no way to live.

Answer 8

You care only about yourself, no one else. Pretty soon, no one will care about you either. Pretty lonely existence.

Answer 9

Because once you're dead, none of that crap matters to anyone.