QUESTION FOR ALL MEN (only men!)?

Question

ok i've been looking abound this category and i've seen soo many women and men questioning turst and cheating and what to do becasue of this or that blah blah blah...
well anyways my question and i want alot of different answer here guys! is why do men cheat on there women, my man has never done it to me and i know he never will but i would like some advice for how i can be the best woman(wife) out there, so tell me why(men cheat) and what i can do to make him happy forever!

Answer 1

HAHA, if you know 'for sure' he will never cheat then he's probably doing it right now, that's how it works (I'd explain but I think it would be irrelevant on this question). For me to be happy what I enjoy is not being told what to do everyday (I hate waking up & being told what Im doing that day), don't be a psycho, give me my space & trust me when I go out, & be a freak when the time is right.

Answer 2

1. Some Men Cheat... 2. Some Women Cheat.....
All I seem to ever hear is that needs aren't being met (which is true but sex is only one of many needs)
If a person makes you feel good about who you are than you will naturlly want to be around that person right? The problem comes in when we grow tired of meeting the needs of another either because they are too needy for our taste or we feel that they aren't trying to meet our needs. As a guy I can honestly tell you that if I'm involved with someone and I feel disregarded... I don't even want to have sex with them.
Yes I am a normal guy...... and yes we have an open marriage but that doesn't mean that we don't have to deal with all the same issues as other partners face.
Rest assured though that just because a woman keeps her legs open for her man 24/7 it's no garrentee that he'll never leave her for anyone else or at the least want to have sex

Answer 3

As long as you keep him happy he shold not cheat. this does not mean he will not look at a nice looking girl and think not think that's nice. Under stand when he has had a bad day. Understand each of you would like time with your friends but not to much especially if you are not thier. I like to go have a few beers with the friends after work. If you show up when we are near half done and join in that is fine just not every time we go out like you are being over protective. When we ask what do you want to do tell us so we can do this cause you may not want to go work on my truck. Don't be to jealous but a little is ok so that we feel wanted. Make us good meals for diner sometimes and be yourself. Be open to new things like different places to eat and activities to go watch or do. This will also help keep us fit and active. You should be getting the idea by now anyhow. It is all common sense if both of you look at this from each others point of view.

Answer 4

Well, first of all recognize it's not just men doing the cheating. Men must have someone to cheat with, and that just happens to be a woman. So the women are cheating too. The reason most people (men and women) cheat is for the sexual excitement......maybe something they're not getting at home. So to keep him close to home keep the sex exciting by doing different things, and by being willing to try some things he may want to do. Ask for suggestions from him. In short just keep him sexually happy at home and he'll have no reason to look anywhere else.

Answer 5

Firstly you can continue to sound like a woman who is very secure and in touch with reality. A lot of men cheat because they feel that another woman would be more exciting than what is awaiting them at home. Some men cheat because they think it makes them look like a big shot in front of their peers. Others because they are unable to communicate with their wives any longer and/or have given up on trying to make things that may have become a bit stagnate at home any better. Hope that this was helpful.

Answer 6

Some men cheat because they feel that they are not being sexually satisfied by their wives/gf's. Some guys I know who have cheated, did it after their wife/gf had a baby and were wanting sex and couldn't right away.

Another thing I guess, is and this can be said about women too. They are thinking only of their needs and not about the feelings and needs of thier partner, and if their partner isn't in the mood, or is sick and they are wanting sex, since they feel that they are being ignored sexually, they look elsewhere.

Answer 7

I can't speak for anyone else but me.I haven't ever cheated but my ex did.I allways thought that when 2 people got married both were suppose to stand by each other even in bad times.I never wanted to cheat because I sowed my wild oats long before makeing that commitment. Seems that others aren't as thoughtful and don't care about the problems they cause when cheating.

Answer 8

Not all men cheat, there are still a few of us left who value and take pride in themselves. Same reason as why a woman would do the same thing...I've had that happen, and I couldn't figure that one out myself. Bored, Want variety, Think the other is HOT. I don't think there is any one reason that applies to everyone and every situation.

Answer 9

Not all men cheat..
More men than women cheat...
It is simply the psychological nature of the beast...
How can you keep your man from cheating ?
You can satisfy his every fantasy anytime & everytime he asks.
He then has no reason to go to another woman for sex and yet
he might still be one of the many ( but not all ) men who cheat .
Just because you might not want to do a particular sex act and are able to convince him not to continue to press you about the matter, does not mean he has forgotten about it...

Answer 10

What makes you think all the men here cheat? Whether your a man or a women, they all cheat when unhappy or dissatisfied with a relation ship. No one here knows your husband, if your that happy with your marriage, you probably should not be seeking advice at making it better.