One of my friends and I got into a big fight last night. She called me soooo many things that i cant even mention, but today at school she begged me to forgive her, I guess I did forgive her but she doesnt really deserve it........ Did I do the right thing?
2006-11-08 08:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by IcanHelpyou:) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dear Lilgirl,
How long have you been friends with her? Because if you have for a long time, it says something. Has she ever done anything like this to you before? Do what you feel is right. If you tell her you wont forgive her, she can cry about it and someday pick her little name-calling self off the floor and move along. However, if you do decide to forgive her, make sure she knows how hurt you were by the name calling. Believe me, I have been through this before, and sometimes, you just can't forgive and forget. But life will go on! Whatever you decide though is up to you. I am hoping that everything will turn out OK!
Liss
2006-11-08 09:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. You need to look at the friendship and see how much you value it, and how much you love your friend. If she's honestly sorry then I would say you made the right choice- a lot of people say things they don't mean when they're mad. If you truly forgive her in your heart for the things she said, then you don't need to ask anyone else.
2006-11-08 16:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by piratewench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is something you do for yourself..... Forgiving someone allows you to get on with more positive things in your life.
Forgiveness isn't about "deserving it", it is more about letting yesterday be in the past.
2006-11-08 16:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you just tell her you forgive her, or did you really forgive her inside? If you're saying she doesn't really deserve it, chances are you haven't forgiven her, and you'll still be seething inside. If you're serious about your friendship, I suggest you sit down and talk about it and examine whether you still want to be friends with this person.
2006-11-08 16:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive her if u think she is a ture friend but tell her to promise to not go that far in a bad fight
2006-11-08 16:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u did but u have 2 tell her if she ever does that again u won't forgive her
2006-11-08 16:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by lady_drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you forgive your giving yourself a favor. so cheer up. you did the right thing. now you can sleep well.
2006-11-08 17:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I been DAR many times!!!!If u really do forgive her den its ok bt if u are stil mad den mayb u shud talk 2 her about it!!!
2006-11-08 17:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by helpme4mproblemgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. forgiveness rocks.
2006-11-08 17:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but yes i think no because she shodnt have called you wat she called you unless you deserved it but she shod have done more than asked for an apology you shod have had her show that trulely wants to be your friend again
2006-11-08 17:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by tikradurham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋