theres 8 of us and half of them got no life. i feel use as all i need to do is to come home to my bed after putting my children in school all they do is smoke drink am not that way. they all hav sad things happen to them they were ok but they just in each others house i want to drop them all apart from one she ok some time abit crazy like my self she want to be going places and doing things but the others just lazy but i love them in away. i need help to stop them driving me mad and coming to my home all the time help........
2006-11-08 08:46:55 · 6 answers · asked by eloise 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you not know how to NOT answer the door?
2006-11-08 08:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you get older and your life changes (like having kids), sometimes old friends don't work for you anymore.
You need time to do things with your kids, and to get a bit of rest when your kids are at school.
When you're a mother you need to put your kids first.
I think you need to get away from your current circle of friends. They're doing you and your kids no good.
You can't have people hanging round your house who are going to set your kids a bad example.
I know it's hard. You've spent a lot of time with these people, and you care about them. But I'm sure you care about your kids more.
Make sure nothing happens round your kids that you're not happy about.
And if these "friends" don't like it, I'm sorry , but you're going to have to lose them.
I wish you and your family all the best. I hope things work out for you.
2006-11-08 17:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them they arnt welcome at your house as you dont want that behaviour near your children. if they really are true friends they will respect that. if they dont and the give you a hard time about it then you know you can drop them. it sounds like you've outgrown them, they really do need to grow up. i've had shocking things happen to me. it depends how you deal with it, i chose not to be a victim and blame everyone else for how i am. so its no excuse for how they act. they need a reality check. if its really bad then i'd simply move if its possible
2006-11-08 17:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that you need family time and friend time and when your at home you'd like to be away from friends and if they need you to call your phone or text!! simple GOOD LUCK!!
2006-11-08 16:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by *BABALICIOUS* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have loser friends.
2006-11-08 16:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-11-08 17:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by 2112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋