what 2 do!!??

Question

My friend (kind of friend who is in the 6 grade and im in the 8th) is about 2 get jumped and beat the crap out of him at the bus stop by this one fat.

FACTS

this girl i realy like is telling me 2 defend for him

i can easly beat up that big fat kid

if i do than i got more enemies (which i can take out and they know it but some but sooner or later i wil get the crap knocked out of me)

i just got back from suspensiion and dont want 2 get suspended again

the kid that is kind of my friend is weak

ill get made fun of for standing up for him and they have pretty annoying names (because i hang out with him and play basketball with him all day and he is in the 6th grade) and they call me stuff like gay fag which pisses me off.

i dont feel like getting hurt (when i get in a fight) be4 i go 2 basketball try outs



Question

do u think i should help

the only problem is it happens 2morow morning (morning bus stop) and i dont have time 2 talk 2 a princible and than if i talk 2 the princible then i will be a rat and get more screwed over. (even if i remain annonimis the assist. princible hates me and would probly tell the kids who ratted on them)

Answer 1

This is a tough one, but I think that if he's truly ur friend you should tell a teacher or the principal of ur school. If he's done something bad, and that's the reason he's in this situation inform the principal of his wrong doing as well, he may be mad but it could save him from being beat up. Be careful especially if this kid has a violent personality,cor if he has alot of friends that would attack you. I don't advise going into combat, many children have been hurt, and some even killed by bullies. Talk to ur parents. If it comes down to a fight make sure you have told an adult before the fight ensues, that you will defend yourself if you have to. Try to mediate between the bully and ur friend in a pier mediation, if your school has a program for this. I say avoid physical combat, but if your friend is being hurt help get other kids at the bus stop to help if you all go against him you can take him down. I sincerely hope you find a solution to this problem that doesn't involve violence. And who cares if people call you names or bug you, that just means that they have such boring and pointless lives that there's nothing better for them to do than to annoy other kids. I may be younger than you, but I really hope you do somthing to avoid confict and that you or any other kids do not get hurt.

Answer 2

Well, I was jist like you growin up,I always hung with kids that I guess were dorks.But I was never a shallow person.If you were ok that was I'll I needed in a friend.Anyway,back to the point.... First as an old head [31],I can tell you fighting didn't get me anywhere. It only made things worse for me someway/somehow....I'm nnot tellin you to puss out or let your friend get beat on. I'm tellin you to to use an alternative to fighting.If you got some *** to back up your talk.... Tell this kid to back the f--- off or your gonna have to face consequences that will not be favorable to him. Make yorself look as serious as possible.... If he puffs up you puff up.....and chances are if your as tuff as you make yourself sound he'll back off.... don't let friend get hurt... don't worry about b-ball try outs.... you'll be fine if you get your *** kicked.... unless you play b-ball with your face... keep this in mind though "pick your battles wisely

Answer 3

its "principal"!!!! dammit, that was really annoyin. u spell really bad for an 8th grader.

anyway, ur pretty much screwed either way. u screwed up once u started hangin out wit the kid (the one who is kinda ur friend but not really n is in 6th grade)...if u really like the kid, then fight the big fat meany. n maybe in the end u'll get that girl. who cares if u get suspended again? it'll be worth it. if u dont like the kid, then he can go to hell n the big fat meany can kick his ***. im glad i dont gotta friend like u

Answer 4

I think you should help if the kid can't defend himself. You don't even have to fight. Try telling someone, an adult, that way you don't get in trouble but you're helping him too.

Answer 5

if he is your friend then u stick up to the fat kid tell him to f*** off and stuff. if u don't want violence then just stick up for him and don't throw the first punch. The names will go away. And prove to the girl that you are a man and will do anything for your friends.

Answer 6

No. It is not worth getting in trouble. You can anonymously report this to the principal and have him deal with it. If this kid is a bully let them take care of it.

Answer 7

Man do it if you want to. Just keep to yourself its not your problem my dude if they start with you then thats when you gotta kick the crap outta them.

Answer 8

It's truthfully (5x + two)^two - y^two that is the change of 2 squares. If you had effortlessly n^two - y^two. you realize it's (n + y)(n - y). So right here, (5x + two) takes the location of the n. (5x + two + y)(5x + two - y)

Answer 9

No your friend needs to fight his own battles.

Answer 10

dont fight kiss and hug!