I love my best friend britney......what do i do? do I ask her out? i really want a clue.....if she says no then it would jusat be WAY to akward. i'm not chicken or anything usually i ask people out no problem....but i LOVE her and she's my best friend.....is there a way i can get her to spill because my friends are pretty sure she likes me and so are her friends...but i'm not so sure...
2006-11-08 08:41:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she's ur BF im assuming that her friends are pretty close to u. They'll probably tell straight out wether she likes u or not. If not, then just ask anyway and let her know that it's ok if she doesn't like you & u still wanna be friends.
P.S. Next time maybe consider not useing her name...you have no idea who might see it (as in people you know!!!!!)
2006-11-08 08:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by missi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go on a group date with you and some friends...or to just go out for fun, not as a date. It'll take time, but it that goes well you should then ask her out for real. It will make you both more comfortable, on the dating scene, if you start out small like that.
2006-11-08 17:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Crouton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have your friends talk to her but, you risk them outright telling her that you like her and that could backfire.
If she's given you any indication that she likes you back then why not just go for it. Hold off on telling her that you love her but, tell her that you like her and see. It wouldn't be as akward as you imagine if she says no- besides, its only as akward as you make it. You could try asking her to a movie, just the two of you, and judge her response to that. See if the idea of going on a date with you appeals to her.
2006-11-08 16:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by irishgypsy88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do this - go up to her when no one else is around and take her hand. Look her in the eyes, smile and say, "You are so special to me.......did you know that?" She'll laugh and think you're messing around if she's not interested in you as a boyfriend. She'll get all gushy if she is interested and you can tell her how you truly feel about her. I hope it works out for you!
God bless!
2006-11-08 16:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get one of your friends to ask her who she likes. Then Zap her. Zaping is a game where you put a girl or boy on some1s hand (that you both know) and you pick a time that she can look at her hand, and if she looks at her hand befort the time, she has to kiss the guy that you put on her hand. Put yourself on her hand and that might be a way of saying that you like her. Good Luck!
2006-11-08 16:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you must be sure that she really likes you, then think about it again for the consequences because you should be ready if your relationship comes to the end you will never be close friends again.But if your love worth more then your friendship then give it a try!Good luck, really!
2006-11-08 16:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a really good case, most guys like their best freinds, then tell em, then get their â¥z broken cuz she dosent feel the same way but, u think the freind like u, go for it, jus tell her how u feel.
2006-11-08 16:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just take a deep breath and jump--ASK HER... its the only way to find out for sure if she likes u
2006-11-08 16:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should try to drop hints and ask her Whould you date one of your friends? just ask her if she would go out with one of her friends . act like it is one of your friends that like her and not you.
2006-11-08 16:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by Crazy Girl M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WAIT awhile just to be sure. you are scared of getting your feelings hurt so wait.
2006-11-08 16:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by yogishwife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋