at lunch some of my kinda friends were bi#$#@#^ my best friend. I just kinda sat there and didn't say anying. After lunch i told my best friend who and what they said. I also told her not to do anything cause they would know it was me and then they would kick me off the table and not talk to me about anything agin. The next day at lunch all the people at my table were interrogating me, saying that my best friend knew everything and everyone who talked about her. They also talked about how she had called up one of the people at the lunch table and started cursing them out!! What should i do?? Im pissed at my bf, but idk what to do. HELP!!!!
2006-11-08 08:34:05 · 10 answers · asked by Fuzzyglasses 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My best friend is a girl and the people i sit with at lunch are girls
2006-11-08 08:37:55 · update #1
Its not like i like the people i sit with, but i have no where else to go!!! stop saying im a bad friend for telling my best friend the truth!!!!!!!
2006-11-08 08:41:20 · update #2
You created your own fears....
Be still.... stop adding drama. Let it pass.....
Remember: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you..... how would you feel if you were them?
Learn from this.
What do you think would have been different if you hadn't said anything????
Everyone can think whatever they want, doesn't have to be true for everyone.
2006-11-08 08:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First- she has a bigger right to be mad at you than you do at her. If she's your BEST FRIEND you should have defended her otherwise, how are you calling her your best friend? You told her what they said and who they were knowing that it would upset her, if the situation was reversed you would have wanted to take action as well so she was only doing what you yourself would have done in that situation.
It hurts when people talk about it, it hurts even more when your best friend doesn't stand up for you. Your job as a friend is to defend her or at least just tell the girls talking about her that maybe they have the wrong idea. I'd say apologize to your supposed best friend and do what you have to in order to keep the friendship. If those other girls are going to talk about people behind their backs like that, are they really the type of girls you want to be friends with??
2006-11-08 08:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by irishgypsy88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have stuck up for your best friend in the first place. You didnt, so she has a right to stick up for herself. Now is your chance to save the friendship you have with her. Trash those other 2 faced girls, and be a good friend to your "best friend"
2006-11-08 08:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You really don't have a grasp of the meaning, "Best Friend".
You screwed her over just so you could be "in" with the Mean Girls.
You're nobody's friend and will continue in that pattern until you change your disloyal ways.
2006-11-08 08:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're sitting with people that talk about your best friend like that then you should move somewhere else the next chance you get. it is understandable that you are mad at your friend but you must understand that everyone has emotions and needs to express them.
2006-11-08 08:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kalphbeir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are girls. this is very common. this should pass. but you should consider that the girls at your table are just mad and the same as your best friend. this almost always happens at school lunch tables. good luck.
2006-11-08 08:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by jopuppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to help you, but I dropped out of school in the 5th grade to learn to play blues guitar with Jelly Jam Jar Johnson. Best thing I ever did. No student loans, no high school politics, none of that crap.
2006-11-08 08:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
i imagine for you to easily sit down the position you want to sit down down. once you've friends at both tables, then you could attempt sitting with the those that you knew in center college. i do not recognize why you by no potential needed to sit down down with your "previous center college" friends formerly.
2016-11-28 22:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have just kept everything to yourself. This way nobody would have gotten hurt and you would not be in the jam that you are.
2006-11-08 08:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you hanging out with those losers anyway? She's either your best friend, or she's not. Whose side are you on anyway?
2006-11-08 08:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋