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I have a few posts over if size of a penis matters and so far im hearing it doesnt sometimes if u know how to use it but others are saying that after a bit she will want bigger and what if i am reduced to pleasing her with a dildo and i cant satisfy her....i mean what do i do...is 4in enough or not...help....any teniques i can use in bed or to make him larger n n e way?

2006-11-08 08:01:25 · 12 answers · asked by lxahlers 2 in Health Women's Health

if anyone can help me at all over this and would to talk with me please mesage me at mastergamer269@yahoo.com or hotmail.com....(same user name in beggining)

2006-11-08 08:14:09 · update #1

12 answers

Sorry, but size DOES matter. Whoever said otherwise lied while trying to make himself feel better.

Fortunately, for you, though. A woman is most sensitive on the clitoris, which is outside, so you don't really need a penis to satisfy a woman. As a matter of fact, the best lover I ever had was impontent and could rarely get an erection. No dildo was ever required. He was beautifully talented with his hands and lips. If you open up and explore your girl and ask her what she likes, she won't really care about the 4 inches.

As for tecniquest to make it better, try moving your hips in a slow, circular motion. Slide up a little higher as you thrust in and out so that her clitoris is stimulated as you slide in and out. Suckling her breasts while you do this will produce an incredible sensation. Also suggest that she practice her kegals excersises so that her vaginal muscles are strenghened for her increased enjoyment and yours... Go to any book store and pick up some sexual manuals. The joy of sex is a classic.

Happy loving.

PS. Your email is bouncing back, so I've resorted to editing... You missed my point. Your penis won't make you a good lover, so stop obsessing on it. If it works for you, concentrate on pleasuring her (which you'd need to do at any size), and then let her take care of you. She won't be unsatisfied. Plus, you must know that you're probably hurting her by rejecting her. Be honest and creative. Manhood is more than a penis. Your greatest sexual tool is found between your ears, NOT between your legs.

2006-11-08 08:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by CJ 3 · 1 1

Ah, the age old question. I am often amazed at how much time people will spend arguing or debating a purely subjective issue. If there is one woman out there to whom size is of importance, then it matters (to her). But obviously it doesn't matter to every woman. So the real question should be "does size matter to YOU?"

That said, let's look at all the variables involved in sexual satisfaction. Ok, not all, but some ;)

Size certainly is one. I mean, since at least some portion of sex is physical in nature, the actual physical characteristics play a part. At risk of generalizing here, to many men, sex is almost purely physical. Likewise, to many women, sex is more emotional than physical. And to further complicate things, there are men who think it is more emotional and women who think it is more physical. So the emotional aspects certainly play a role in many relationships, on one side or the other, or even both!

Then there is technique, which can include positions, technique, experience, longevity, etc. And to some (an alarmingly low number in my humble opinion), love is a big factor in sexual satisfaction. Oh, and don't forget fantasy or role play.

Wow, there are so many variables! Yet so many worry about "size". I think that for very few out there, male or female, size is of enough importance to be considered a major factor. It plays a role in the big picture, certainly... especially at the extremes (incredibly large or small), but I think that for the vast majority of people out there, there are MUCH bigger issues than size.

Best of luck!

2006-11-08 16:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by disposable_hero_too 6 · 0 0

The woman only has nerve endings only to about an inch into the vaginal opening. Since four inches pass that, it is big enough to pleasure her. However, a large part of sex is mental. The sight of the smaller penis may prevent her from being more aroused beforehand, so it may require a longer time to get her to orgasm (not because he isn't long enough but because she isn't as aroused before the whole thing begins). But it isn't impossible, so if at all possible try not to let the fact that it is smaller get so much in the way.

2006-11-08 16:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I believe that sex is a ritual between 2 that creates an atmosphere of 1 between partners that are in a long as we live relationship. It is sad that society chooses to use sex as a toy or game. It is much more than size, it is unity of the 2. SO, if size is a factor, then just what the heck is she looking for?? ,,, I would think it would be YOU. And wanting to make that ultimate sexual sacrifice with the one who's heart is in unison with hers. Time to fall in love again, not alternates.

2006-11-08 16:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by ludwigkicker 2 · 0 0

I can't speak for all women, but I'd rather not have my obituary read "The lady was stabbed to death by an 11" penis." Trust me, there are better ways to go.

Talk to your girlfriend/wife/whatever she is to you, and ask her what she thinks. And look at it this way: It has been proven that all of a woman's nerve endings inside her vagina are in the first three inches. So if you've got four, you're doing fine.

2006-11-08 16:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell24 4 · 1 0

In my opinion, size doesnt matter! AS long as you know waht you are doing, it doesnt matter how big you are. Sometimes when you are with a man who is too big it is not the most comfortaable thing. And lastly, as I always say its not the sex, its the foreplay for me! So chin up, and dont you worry! Go get em tiger!!!

2006-11-08 16:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I said it before and I say it again:
dont ask these stupid questions, its not good for your EGO

yeah, size is important, at least 10 inches. all ***** under this are considered small. happy now ?


PS its okay, its about foreplay, also use your tongue, fingers, etc..try position woman on top

2006-11-09 08:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by Martin the baby 6 · 0 0

sometimes it doesnt matter when they know what to do with it but if he cant work it right and it makes u wanna get a dildo then u need to leave hym alone

2006-11-08 16:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by confused! 1 · 0 0

Well since it's only 4in that's not enough to satisfy!

2006-11-08 16:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by TC1 2 · 0 1

Yes, size does matter

2006-11-08 21:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0 1

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