2006-11-08 07:23:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
big possibility
2006-11-08 07:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by wingless angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with the sentiment "once a cheater, always a cheater", which has been brought up already in this question, but I would be leery of somebody who leaves an established relationship for the express purpose of entering a new relationship.
Ever heard of folks who are "in love with being in love?" Novelty is an aphrodisiac, and there is a sadly large number of people who mistake the rush of a new relationship for "true love", and may end up committing to people with whom they're not compatible, only to find themselves miserable when the novelty is gone. They figure that since they no longer feel head-over-heels giddy about the person, then they weren't really The One(tm) and it's off to find the next candidate. Or worse, they might well be aware that the rush is only temporary, and they don't care - they're living for that rush, and not a relationship.
As for "will" he do the same thing? It depends. Some of them grow up and realize there's more to love than that. I don't think I'd stake my heart on such a possibility, though.
2006-11-08 15:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my situation, I was married and he cheated on me several times. I kicked him out, now he has a new gf and tries to have me on the side as a booty call. I think it is possible for someone to change but as someone else mentioned prior to my answer, "he changed women, not himself"...and also the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior so there is a pretty good chance that he will just do the same thing in time to next person he marries or dates once he gets bored or does not get whatever need drove him to cheat met...since he cheated he obviously thinks more of himself then of anyone else and esp that of a relationship and is a good thing to keep in mind bc if things get a lil bad in the relationship, he's only going 2 be looking out for #1. Good luck:)
2006-11-08 16:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe they will keep doing this, because they can't deal with any conflict, they don't learn from their mistakes, because they keep running away from them like a coward. they miss the chance of ever learning how to deal with problems. also they keep marrying and leaving because they want to be seen as mr wonderful, so they keep changing mates, until the next crisis comes, than they are out the door again. just a very immature man.
2006-11-08 19:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that its a cycle with people like that, if you leave someone for someone else you will do that over and over again. I would not be with someone like that. Being involved with a person like that you should sheild your heart from them
2006-11-08 15:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Isis Dior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make mistakes in choosing their mates sometimes. It doesn't mean he's a serial cheater. It just means he fell in love with someone else. If he is happy, he'll stay.
2006-11-08 15:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he will keep breathing, eating, digesting, prolly going to work. Same thing, basically.
If you're asking if he's going to divorce his new wife - HOW WOULD WE KNOW?
2006-11-08 15:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is he doing? keep marryeing and divorcing? he might have goten divorced because he wans't happy unless he's Elizabeth Taylor then yes!
2006-11-08 15:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. If he's happy with the new wife, then no.
2006-11-08 15:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Survey says....yes. Once a cheater, always a cheater
2006-11-08 15:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No cuz the 2nd person may be totally different...men only leave when bored to death
2006-11-08 15:25:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋