My husband and I have been together 8 years, about a year ago my sex drive went down hill!!! Completely!! I had a hysterectomy in Jan. thinking it would help, but it hasn't. I have absolutely no desire, need or want for it. I know it is not fair to him and I love him completely. Any suggestions?? Thanks!
2006-11-08 07:22:28 · 9 answers · asked by niedermn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good for you for seeing this for what it is. Remember I doubt you have desire to fil your car with gas but you do it anyway.
While you try to solve this.................. just do it.
2006-11-08 07:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are describing a conditions known as Inhibited sexual desire (ISD). The person with ISD fails to initiate or respond to their partner's desire for sexual activity.
ISD is a very common sexual disorder. The most common cause of ISD seems to be relationship problems wherein one partner does not feel emotionally intimate or close to their mate.
Communication problems, health problems such as depression, insomnia, excessive stress.
Treatment is required by the professional therapist and it depends on the eliminating causes listed above.
2006-11-08 15:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have desire but you can attack him at the door. Chances are once you start going at it you will get some desire. If that doesnt work find a friend and let her hose hubby.
2006-11-08 15:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a hormone imbalance and maybe the doctor who performed the operation can answer this question . We don't always go thru life horny all the time .
2006-11-08 15:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys just need to spice things up a bit. Try doing some old things you used to do in the beginning....watch porn, dress up for him...
2006-11-08 15:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sounds like your homones are out of balance...you need to see your physician and medication can be prescibed to help in this situation...it will actually make you want to have sex...
2006-11-08 15:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a porn
buy some lingerie
take a bath together
turn on some slow music
light candles
2006-11-08 15:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get HRT and just do it anyway. pretend you love it and your desire will return. But get HRT
2006-11-08 15:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you keep your ovaries or did you lose them? if you kept your ovaries then there is still a chance. if not...please go see a doctor.
2006-11-08 15:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋