ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years ok he tells me he love me and show in ways some times that he does.ok your 3 year mark was sept.28 and his bitrthday is on sept.30 ok on his birthday he broke up with me to go to a girls house "to hang out" he told me trought the night that he wanted to have sex with this girl glitter all over his face.I went in the house and sat there he never said anything to me but he was talking to her but me and the girl had already talked i tolded her if they did any thing i was gonna beat her ***.Anyways in my face keept looking at her *** in my face went in her bed pasted out and so much more he told me he hated me he coulsdnt stand me.But i love this guy so much i was running trough thrown bushed to get to him screaming and crying my leg was covered in blood and he never seemed to care.one more thing i have to add is we had sex about 2 nights after all this and he left me when we was done and we to her house and spent the night.HELP ME???
2006-11-08 07:19:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I guess I can see why you wrote "DONT TELL ME TO LEAVE HIM". Sweetie I honestly think you need to calm down just a little. Cause typing when your this upset makes it hard for some to understand truely whats going on. There seems to be alot jumbled in your question. I must agree with just one thing, 3 years is 3years and thats a pretty good chunk of your life, to not be just throwing away. You really care about this guy huh? Well if you feel hes worth fighting for then fight, but honey its not goona be easy. I am not sure 100% but it sounds like he doesnt care about you anymore. If that is true then fighting may not make a difference. However, if you feel like he still has something for you, then its worth a shot. To start with, take a day to yourself to regroup your self and take care of that cut on your leg. This will allow for both of you to calm down and be able to think more rationally. Im sure youve heard of the saying "SET IT FREE AND IF IT COMES BACK THEN IT WAS MEANT TO BE" well in most cases this holds true. Although I have to admit the waiting is a bitc*! One way to start off on the right foot would be to send a card with a sweet but sincere apology. Let him know you would like to talk not fight and when hes ready to just talk your ready. But hold true to that, if he takes you up on that, remember to talk not fight no matter how right you feel, fighting will only make things worse. Im thinking that this guy's hormones were racing and his own guilt for haveing thoughts about this other girl caused him to break it off irrationally. At least this way he would be guilt free if something did happen. That in it self says alot about his character. It shows he has some kind of conscious, whether large or small hes got one. You know what I would have done the same thing you did with telling the girl what you did. I am defensive like that. I have to commend you though cause I probably would have knocked the *itch out right then and there. If you dont mind me saying, I wouldnt waste a life time trying. Sometimes it takes weeks, months, even years for people to realize were they went wrong. I could go on and on with all kinds of stuff, but Im gonna stop here and wish you the best. Last resort, It just wasnt meant to be and you just move on-with great hesitation, yet sometimes this is inevitiable. Good Luck -cjpb
2006-11-08 09:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by cjpburgess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows... I found this site close to three years ago and it has been an addiction ever since... And don't let me say I am over the addiction because as soon as I proclaim to have it "under control" It rears its ugly head again and BOOM! Before I know it I have sat here for more than two hours straight... I have met up with some interesting people along the way and some who were just down right freaky... Also there have been times when I am not goofing off I feel like I really gave someone a good solid answer to help them feel their way through what they were going through... It is hard to leave, consider you may but to actually leave, may prove hard although anything is possible so I wont even say never for myself...
2016-05-21 22:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mention in your heading that you do not want anyone to tell you to leave him...but you are going to have to get a grip girl!!!! I don't know your background, but you seem to lack self-esteem. I know the feeling, but I finally realized I am worth 100 times more than that fool and you should realize that too. As for the tramp, don't bother ruining your pretty hands on that poor, worthless excuse of a girl, it embarrasses me to address her as a girl, real girls don't do what she is doing. Real men don't do what your boyfriend is doing. Seriously, they are not worth your time. You will soon see that.
2006-11-08 09:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by suenos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have selesteem issues. Try going to a proffestional to find out why you feel the need to accept behavior like this. He doesn't love you. He is using you for sex!! If you want to be used this way then you can do nothing, but if you get tired of it seek help.
2006-11-08 07:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh for crying out loud!!!!!!!!! Get rid of him, he's not the only fish in the sea and if he's sniffing around another schlit, LET HIM GO!!! Go on with your life and you'll find someone that will only want to be with you....Why force it?!?!?! Why be obsessive??? with you causing a scene, he's getting the attention that he wants and making you look like a raving lunatic.
2006-11-08 07:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by sred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is damn near unintelligible (punctuation helps!), but if you had sex with this loser two nights after he had sex with this other chick, you're just as bad.
2006-11-08 07:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by too funny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋