I been going out with my bf for half a month now almost two. And he said "if we have sex we might be closer and be conftable more". And he said "once i do it ill be glad i did it and i wont regreat it.Should i make him wait more or have sex?
2006-11-08 07:19:00 · 28 answers · asked by ~::~Ariana~::~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you don't feel the same way I say wait because if you really wanted to have sex with him, it wouldn't take strangers from yahoo answers to help you out with the problem. Yall haven't even been dating that long, why would you want to rush and have sex? It seems as if thats all he wants. If he's coming out now and asking you to have sex, he's been thinking about that for a good while now. That could also be the reason he got with u since yall have only been dating like 2 weeks! Have some morals for yourself...
2006-11-08 07:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ur ready ur ready it doesn't matter how old u are or how long u been with a guy. When u are finally ready u will know. If ur bf keeps pressuring u to have sex u should leave him cause that means he doesn't respect ur wishes and only wants sex. When I first started dating my husband he waited 2 years before i would sleep with him. He waited patiently.
2006-11-08 07:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem now with SEX is kids. SEX is to be shared with someone special. Someone you love with your heart not with whats in between your legs. Someone you plan to spend a at least half of your life with.. Love is not all about having sex. You can be affectionate to each other without having sex. If he loves you he will wait. Don't do something now that you will regret later...
2006-11-08 07:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you of legal age?
Are you aware of all the possible physical consequences of sexual activity, and are you / would you be taking steps to minimize your risks?
Are you aware of the possible emotional consequences of sexual activity? When the guy who took my virginity decided it was over, I went full-bore psychotic on him because I was still heavily influenced by the idea that he'd "ruined" me (it was okay while we were in the relationship *because* we were in the relationship).
Do you feel you're ready, and do you want to?
If ANY of those answers is "no", then continue to make him wait. If he keeps whining or attempting to pressure you, then tell him to shove off, 'cause he isn't respecting your feelings on the matter anymore. They love to use the line "you would if you loved me"; I retort with "If you loved ME, you'd understand why I want to wait".
2006-11-08 07:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes make him wait, he seems like he is just feeding you the "game". he is probably a black guy and they always say that to get into the chicks pants. Men automatically think...yeah she will think i am sincere and sweet and she will give up the panties. Let him wait and see if its more than just sex.
You let him know that you want to wait, if he gives you...you will do it if you love me line, then he just wants sex. Girl, dont do it. Let that mofo wait, becuz he is straight up playin you.He just wants to get the kitty kat and he will say anything that you may like to get it.
2006-11-08 07:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! Consequences of your actions could turn out bad in the long run. Do not sin against your body before marriage, don't do it. You will regret it, and if this relationship should end, you will have to live with that, I beg you not to.
2006-11-08 07:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD MAKE HIM WAIT MORE.AND MOST OF THE GUYS WILL SAY THAT YOU WONT REGRET IT BUT THAT IS JUST A WAY FOR YOU TO GIVE IT TO THEM.HE WILL RESPECT YOU IN THE FUTURE,IF YOU DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM BECAUSE HE WILL SEE THAT YOU ARE NOT AN EASY GIRL AND THAT YOU RESPECT YOUR SELF.AND SEX DOSE NOT BRING A PERSON CLOSER.TRUST AND HONESTY DOES.
2006-11-08 07:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have sex with him until YOU feel like you should. What you choose to do with your body should be up to you and no one else. If he really loves you he will understand if you want to wait a while longer until you feel comfortable with it.
2006-11-08 07:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by chevygirl6767 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter what he says... Do whatever you are comfortable with. There's nothing wrong with having sex if this is what you feel like doing, and also nothing wrong with waiting if this is what makes you happy.
2006-11-08 07:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't succomb to pressure. Only sleep with him when you feel you're ready. If he really loves you, he'll understand. If he leaves, you're better off without him as sex is all he wants anyways.
2006-11-08 07:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋