Please help me!!!!?

Question

I just started my period today. Its 11/8/06. It was raining so I didnt see until I got home. Then I saw it was allllllll red and it was allover the place and its disgusting. I thought they were suppose to be a lil not a ton of blood! Please help me!! I cant tell my mom because she is very embaressing and she makes a big deal of everything. She almost always makes me feel uncomfortable and I just cant tell her. Please please please help me!

I am trying to wash the underwear but it still has a big brown stop. My mom doesnt just wash stuff, she checks if they are dirty. So I cant just clean them without her noticing. We go to a laundromaut so i cant clean them in a house cleaner either. I just cant tell her. Its embaressing , uncomfortable and she makes big deals out of stuff. I cant deal with that.

I have no one else to talk to though. My grandmother is in Europe, my aunt is in another state. So All I have is my mom. I have no other siblings too. I dont like to talk to my mom too, because she always yells at me and sometimes she hits me. I just cant.

Is there any way to skip your period? I know its so you can have kids, but I dont ever want kids. No reason, I just dont. I dont want my period and I hate it. I want to be normal again.!!!

I think something is wrong. I was taking off my pad and then suddenly blood just started dripping and drippind and it wont stop. I have to throw the underwear out because its all over the place and on my rug. If that happens at school, I will just die. Its always a heavy flow and Sometimes it starts dripping in the middle of the day a few times. I hate this, I dont want my period!

Answer 1

RELAX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its not a big deal, sorry, but your gonna have to get used to it! But i promise it gets easier to deal w/ u dont even notice it after a while. The first few times are just wierd!!! Relax, find a pad/tampon, clean everything, and just go on doing what you normally do.
I would suggest a pad, WAY EASIER! You need to get used to having your period before you get too tricky! Just remember to put some pads in your purse so your always ready and you'll be use to it in no time! GOOD LUCK!

Answer 2

First, I would wash your clothes and get the blood stain out. Either do a load of laundry, or wash your bloody clothes by hand with detergent and water. Get some feminine pads (if you cannot decide which brand to buy, I've never had a problem with Always with wings. They are great). You'll feel better once you have clean clothes on and are wearing a good pad. I would still tell your mom that you have your period, but if you're not going to, at least clean up the mess it made, get pads, and if you're experiencing cramps you can take Midol or Tylenol.

Answer 3

Yes you can tell her. Ask her to keep it to herself, that you do not want the whole world to know your business! And if she tell everybody, than you will not be able to trust her about more important information. Now don't say it disrespectful she's still your mom, but let her know that you are telling her because you can trust her!

If you don't want to tell her, than you need to get you some pads and clean yourself up. Wash everything and yourself and continue on with your business. Do you understand what is going on with your body right now? If not talk with a nurse or someone that you think you can talk too about it. Mom would be the right person, so the choice is yours.
You are a young woman now!!!!!!!!!!
Shout will take care of the stains, You can calm down...You will be just fine!

Answer 4

Honey, there is something major, major, major wrong when a girl your age can't talk to her mother about something her mother has an OBLIGATION to discuss with her It isn't that unusual for some women's menstrual periods to be more heavy than others. But what you seriously need to do is find somebody you CAN talk to about these things. Do you have a trusted aunt, for instance? Or what about one of your grandmothers if they are available to you? Or is there a School Nurse you could see?
You need reassurance, and guidance at this time, and if all else fails, ask your mother to make an appointment for you to see a "women's doctor". Sooner or later you are going to have other questions about your menstrual cycle etc and you have a right to be able to talk to someone about these matters.

Answer 5

First calm down, take a breath. Take your soiled clothes and rinse them in cold water. Hop in the shower and clean off. Put on fresh, clean clothes and throw your dirty ones in the wash on a cold cycle.
Periods are all different for all women. Accidents happen to all of us...even those of us who've been doing it a while.
It really isn't a big deal...just get cleaned up and relax.

Answer 6

Just take a shower and rinse out your clothes with cold water and some hydrogen peroxide before you put them in the wash. It's OK, happens to alot of us.

Answer 7

you are probably fine. sometimes it looks like a lot of blood when you are not prepared. if it continues to be heavy enough to alarm you, you may need to talk to your mom about seeing a doctor. you also might want to talk with you mom about a little pain medicine. you sound kinda young and don't need to dose yourself.

more importantly, you need to tell your mom that you feel uncomfortable about talking to her about sensitive issues and ask if she might tone it down a little so you are not so embarrassed. i'm sure your mom would do anything to be sure you talk with her instead of going to places like this where people may take advantage of you.

Answer 8

Well, first of all, you need to tell your mom. You can't keep it from her! She will need to buy you some pads. It is different with everyone how light your first period will be. It will probably be irregular for awhile though. But sooner or later it will regulate itself.