What does doing that make you feel about a person? How do you think you will treat them after that? What do you think is wrong with a person like that?
2006-11-08 07:03:08 · 7 answers · asked by Michelle J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think I respect them less, and try to distance myself from them
Especially if they have a great life, and this pity party has been going on for some time.
I'd suggest counselling, or going to see a doctor, as it could be deppression.
Tr yto be supportive while not getting dragged under
People like this can be so draining
2006-11-08 07:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are seeking attention and personally that is not a quality I enjoy in another person. I would probably treat them the same but have less of a liking for them.
2006-11-08 07:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That person is probably looking for attention. Could be they are depressed, could be they need a friend, could be they just like to be the center of attention. I think I would find out what the underlying cause is before making any decisions about them.
2006-11-08 07:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by g49joeybethl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a customer who comes in my cafe, she does nothing but moan about how ill she is, but still manages to come 3/4 times a week, at first i felt sorry for her, but found out what she was really like when i lost my dad. instead of giving me sympathy all she did was go on about how she felt when she lost her husband. i found my self putting on a polite smile, a nod of the head, when all i wanted to do was scream at her. my stomach turns over whenever she now comes in the cafe, i hate her, and that is a bad thing to say about anyone. but she is only happy when she is miserable. i guess she is lonely, her only daughter has nothing to do with her, i guess be-cos she is a very bitter woman. if she lightened up a bit, maybe people would be drawn to her more
2006-11-08 07:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by valda54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dislike when someone puts me on a guilt trip. I've learned to not let that happen, especially minor stuff. I think people who continually do this want their own way and could care less how they get it. To put someone on a guilt trip is playing with emotions.
I feel a person who does this is emotionally immature and needs to stop thinking about themselves.
2006-11-08 07:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Aidge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like being manipulated. People like that are called manipulators.
2006-11-08 07:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are attiention seeking if you force people to feel sorry for you they won't when you really do need it.
2006-11-08 07:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋