Is this normal? I don't want to make her think I feel insecure about it. I just was wondering what suggestions some intellegent people have to offer. I was surprised and a little jealous but interested in what she told me. In a wierd way it was exciting to hear this from her. Any good advise would be helpful.
2006-11-08 06:47:46 · 15 answers · asked by answer man 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
PERFECT COUPLES. tell to each other every fantasy you both are having.... that's a good sign of a wonderful life you are having. no need to be insecure and jealous of each.
2006-11-08 06:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure I could handle that one. Fantasies and dreams are two different things - dreams I could deal with.
If it is normal I certainly wouldn't want to know about it.
It doesn't mean she would ever do anything but that's a pretty big hit to the ol' ego.
2006-11-08 06:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by ksmpmjoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Her thoughts on the matter are normal, as long as she doesn't actively persue a followthrough of the fantasies. People fantasize.
2. Her willingness to communicate with you is admirable.
3. She probably, however, should have filed this under "things I should keep to myself".
2006-11-08 06:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Big G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much everyone fantasizes - don't you?
As long as she's not acting on it, I don't think there's any harm done. In fact, you could feel honored that she chose to share it with you. Fantasies are personal matters and people don't generally share them with others unless they trust them.
2006-11-08 07:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by izzy_a_dumas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are some things that just don't need to be said. But since she's already told you , I think you're on the right track not to make her feel bad or insecure about it.Maybe you'd like to see her with other men but just not your friends??? Thats funny...I can't think of ONE friend of my fiance's that i'd like to bang...Maybe he should get better friends.
2006-11-08 06:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by BB'sMom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me your wife isn't a very considerate person. that, or she has a distorted understanding of other people's emotions. you should tell her that you were jealous by what she said, and see how she reacts. i think you should go into marriage counciling about this, because this is a sign that she may start cheating on you or want you to be in a threesome with her and another person (which will destroy your relationship, emotionally and physically).
2006-11-08 07:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by answer away 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep it a fantasy. DONT go for the real thing as it has every chance of killing your marriage and losing your friends.
2006-11-08 06:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by hharry_m_uk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is a serious question, then no offense, but tell your mom to keep her fantasies to herself. That is WAY INAPPROPRIATE on about a million different levels.
Calling Dr. Freud!
2006-11-08 07:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
um..well I would never think that way about my mns friends but as long as it stays a fantasy I think you have nothing to worry about.
2006-11-08 06:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offensive is best strategy then defensive. Show her your interest in other women so she got little worried. This will acknowledge her that if she feel abuse from your act so do you.
2006-11-08 06:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋