okay, i'm living a very rough life and i told my mom everything...my dad is keeping me away from my mom jus' because his girlfriend don't want her around and my dad always takes her side...she yells at me call me names and i get lickens for yelling back at her.... she has 2 kids with my dad and she never takes care of them and my dad tells us that it's our responsibilty to take care of them..... he makes me stay home from school two watch them so that she can go to work.... i've been away from my mom for 4 years....he does everything to please his girlfriend but deep in his heart he still loves my mom....he always tells me that he loves her and that he wants her back but he treats her so mean and he's always hurting her by keeping us away from her...and he knows that...my mom divorced him because she caught him cheating on her with his girlfriend now. He trys to make her jealous. He knows that the only way that he can hurt her is by using us...keeping us away from her..& its working.
2006-11-08 06:45:34 · 8 answers · asked by Nissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nissy my heart goese out to u!!!!! im about to be real with you. now 1st of all do u get to talk to ur mom? if not then its up to u to reach out to her. belive me its not a day go by that ur mom dont cry on ur birthday n special holidays. im hurting for ur mom.this is not right on sooo many different levels. 1 ur dad is not acting like a loving dad plus he has unresolved issues with ur mom. he cant have her so he rather hurt her. on that alone she will never 4give him for 1st keeping u away from her, then on top of that hes been a poor father figure . for him to not allow his own child to go to school to better her education he rather make u stay home from school to babysit is 1st illeagal!!!! i would tell ur mom about this. hes lucky i dont know his name i will report him to truancy. now this is a disfunctional couple. how can he open his mouth up to say he loves his child n hes acting like a fool. this girlfriend is not worth crap cause if she was she would tell ur day to get a babysister cause u need to be in school. u feel me. u need to tell someone, u r in a bad home and u seriously need ur mom as she needs u. if u cant call her u NEED to write ur mom. i wish to GOD that i could help u all i can do is give u advice when u need a friend to lean on. i pray that u talk to ur mom. plus why haven't the school not reported u not being there . there is a law that will put moms n dads in jail for kids not going to school. think about this if daddy loved u would he always act the way he do? what about this girlfriend she cant be right all the time. this is unhealthy for u n i know that u have to be stressed. i beg u to pray to GOD. is there anyone that u can turn to that is living in ur home town? can u email me back so we can talk? my prayers will go up to GOD for u.by the way what grade are u in? keep ur head up Nissy. troubles dont last always. plz keep in touch
2006-11-08 07:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by 1plum 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 09:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go live with your mom. Get away from the family drama... I had a lot of the same issues (dad cheated with current girlfriend-girlfriend hates me and wants me out of my dads life) the difference I see is that I am older (assuming). I wish I had moved with my mom when she went to Maine (im in Jersey) but I couldn't leave my best friends and my boyfriend. Just get out of the drama and go be with your mom- you will be soo much happier
2006-11-08 06:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off it sounds like your old enough to choose which parent you want to live with. I don't know your parents child agreement but you can go to the courts and tell them your story and ask to be moved to your mothers home or have your mother do this for you!
Secondly, for your dad. He needs to get his backbone back and start acting like a man not a child himself!! Your step mother gets away with all this stuff because your father lets her!!
Tell your dad just how you feel and that if things don't change you want out!
2006-11-08 06:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be a good idea for you to go to your school guidance counselor and tell them what has been going on. They should with out out doubt be made aware of your situation. You have a right to see your mother, and it is wrong for your dad to keep you home from school like that. So it is important that your guidance counselor or a teacher be made aware of you predicament, because they are in a better position to help you.
2006-11-08 06:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by nicky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt do that because i know how it is no to have one of your parents and forever reason but i know how you feel. your dad has been igorant and his gurl friend is being spiteful. she needs to grow uo and see that she is hurting more then just your mother it children invole shes and idiot and your dad is sur emaking it eaasy for your mother to forgive him and take him back.
2006-11-08 07:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why doesn't your mother try and get custody of you and you can ask to talk to the judge yourself and tell them what you want
2006-11-08 06:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live with your mom
2006-11-08 06:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋