Do you go after a married man who shows interest in you?? This is someone who you've worked with and gone out with as a group with other co-workers and friends. He has mentioned that the marriage is in danger. Just worry that this will not be a fair deal for me, him, the kids (and the wife)...??
2006-11-08 06:31:31 · 40 answers · asked by gwen s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO!
2006-11-08 06:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok, nobody here has the magical answer for you. YOU KNOW the difference between right and wrong (I hope.) and so the right thing for you to do would be to stay the hell away from this guy. Why would you want to bring all this trouble upon yourself, isn't life hard enough without adding unneeded stress and worry to it?
Here's the obvious.
A.) There are TONS and TONS and TONS of single men out there, why must you be interested in one that already has a family?
B.) If he cheats with his wife with you, chances are (In MOST cases, not ALL.) that he would do the same to you.
C.) Do you really want to be a home wrecker? He has children for pete's sake.
D.)You may get your a$$ kicked by an unhappy wife that finds out about you. Better take some karate/self defense classes, A.S.A.P. if you want to pursue this.
2006-11-08 06:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh where have you been all my life!
If you are just interested in a sexual relationship with him then why not?
Sssshh.... I am going to teach you a secret about men though. Listen very carefully and you will learn something really important... if a married man tells you he is unhappy in his marriage stay away. He is probably lying through his teeth. Even if he is not he has no intention of changing anything. If however a married man says.. "You know I love my wife and family I just really am attracted to you and if you are up for a little sex without emotion ... " go for it if that's what you want.
2006-11-08 07:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen.... If he is truly interested in you then you can't help that. He needs to make things at home either better or he needs to get out. If you are interested in him then you will wait for him to become available. But DO NOT do anything until then. If yo do then no matter WHAT, you will be perceived as the OTHER WOMAN. So just wait.
2006-11-08 06:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by knowsbetter 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hes vulnerable you dont want this I promise. If things end between him and his wife then so be it but dont let it be over you. Thats not fair to anyone if its going to happen like that. If he's going to cheat he is going to do it but its not a good idea to be involved in that situation. I wouldnt do it for one your in a terrible position you work together and the other obvious reasons. Just let them run their course afterall they make work things out and you may just complicate things between them and between you and him. You will get hurt in the long run.
2006-11-08 07:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you want a woman asking this question about your husband? I am married and I have been divorced, I can hold my head up with pride because I have never let myself get involved with married men....hello....they obviously don't believe in commitment, and if he really wants a relationship with you, he will leave his wife and get that completely over first! He just wants you to sleep with him, you will be his whore..is that what you want?
2006-11-08 06:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO don't ever do it, hello!!!! he's married and that mean he's already taking just in case if you didn't know it. He's probably telling you all his problem with his wife because he wants to get into your pant and beside you don't want to get involve with someone who might as well do the same thing to you, now won't he???
2006-11-08 06:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by LaoSy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Do you believe him?
2. Do you really want to get involved and then see this family break up?
3. If his wife finds out she will come looking for you.
4. Even if he leaves her she will make life miserable for the two of you.
2006-11-08 07:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Not until he has said the wife or gold digging bit-h has kick him out of the house or filed for a divorce. Then he is open game! Good luck!
2006-11-08 07:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unless you find lying, cheating men who screw over their wives attractive. His marriage is none of your business. Just because he has no morals or character doesn't mean you don't.
In fact, I'd be damn insulted if a married man showed interest in me: does he think I'm a ho-bag who messes around with married men? Does he think a lying cheater is all I'm worth?? NOT a compliment!
2006-11-08 06:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You are the other woman. He should never be talking to you about his marriage. That is for a male friend to confide in. He is looking for sex, nothing more. The grass looks greener always, but it's usually over a septic tank. Don't do it babe.
2006-11-08 06:44:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋