hey whts up guys? im popular but a little too quiet i mean i hang out with guys and girls. i feel cofortable around some guys but how can i be more cofortable with all the other popular ones? i need help!
2006-11-08 06:21:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be yourself. Be confident and don't try too hard. People can notice it if you do it. If you are quiet about people then well they will have to get to know you more till you can be more yourself. Not everyone can open up to a new person in a sec. So take your time and just be yourslef. But remember in the midst of loving the popularity and fame make sure you make quality friends over quantity!!
2006-11-08 06:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mai-Tai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, this seems lenghty, but its not. i did the exact same thing, and guess what...it worked!
first, you have to meet at least one person from each varying group in your environment. for this hypothetical, we'll say that you know a girl from the Creative Writing Club (random example, i know). this girl will be your liason to the others in the group. see, with this person, you will know everyone else through at most Three Degrees (you know someone who knows someone who knows the person). you need the liason to meet everyone, become good friends, and keep going on with it.
as for the aspect of actually working on getting a person to be your friend, first you have to find out through conversation what this person hates. it's odd, but common problems bond people quicker than common interests. those come after, when the bond is made. then, talk to each individual person, one on one, see if something clicks. don't give up, but don't be a royal pain, either. eventually, you'll be the Girl to Know in your school.
good luck, and please, email me back for any extra pointers on this.
2006-11-08 14:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Luv Docta Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just force yourself to talk to some girls...soon you will comfortable and the rest will come naturally. Or join some type of clubs or pick up a new hobby...the friends come along with it.
2006-11-08 14:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by pudgie39759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that this is something you can make yourself do. People can spot a phony a mile away. Just be your natural self, & try to treat all people the same.
2006-11-08 14:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could never be more outgoing u have to be yourself and only yourself then you'll be more outgoing though you
2006-11-08 14:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by ashleicakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by wearing something tight and low cut and no panties is a good idea too
2006-11-08 14:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself and just talk to them and stuff normally, laugh with their jokes! if they dont like u as u are, you shouldnt bother with them! x
2006-11-08 14:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by Kirstie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋