I am 1 month and 2weeks and i dont know how to tell the people i love the most..
2006-11-08 06:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Do you have a supprotive family? When i was pregnant with my first I didnt tell my parents until i was over 3 months (i lived out of state then) i was so scared they would disown me and kick me to the curb. However to my complete shock they were the total opposite. My family couldn't have been more supportive. There is no easy way to tell them. Just say, "hey i have something important i want to talk to you about.. can we talk at this day and this time?" Dont catch them offguard or do it while they are in bad moods or having a bad day... Just set some time aside that you need their undivided attention to talk about something really important and youjust sit down together and as hard as it is... just say the words, "i'm pregnant" everything else will go from there. Good luck!
2006-11-08 06:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are, I'd say! Try to catch them in a good mood, it might turn the atmosphere into a dark one, but it is important to tell them. And it is important to tell both, your foster mom and your mom!!!
Don't wait too long, it is better for them to know before you start showing. They might be mad, but they have to support you on the decision you make, whether they like it or not!
It is important for you to understand the consequences of your actions (i.e. abortion, adoption, keeping YOUR baby). The reason I say YOUR baby is because the two moms will probably try to talk you out of having the baby It stays your decision.
Good luck!!!!
2006-11-08 21:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by poepies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them ASAP. You should've been in the care of a good ob-gyn by now. And let the father know too as he's going to have to pay child support (if you keep it, that is). Good luck.
2006-11-08 06:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let me just say that it's nice to hear that you have such a great relationship with both of your "mom's". I would just sit them down separately or together...and just say it. I had to tell my mom, and had 6 of my friends sit in front of me on my bed while I told her. I was scared shi!less and didn't know what to do. But it all worked out in the end and yes she was dissapointed in me, but not angry!
2006-11-08 07:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom she's going to be a gandmom. And get a job so you can start providing for your child.
2006-11-08 06:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. think whats going to happen get a plan and there your parents they love just do it for your baby who im sure will be the light of ur life by the way how old are u?
2006-11-08 06:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by sarahdoo16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont write it --just tell them --if they luv you, they will accept it! It depends how old you are -- if you are like 20, then, they'll be like, congratzz but if you are like 14...they may b a lil angry but, you'll have to tell them - if they luv you, they will support you and comfort you
2006-11-08 08:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by 12 yr old boi crazzi gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them asap you will feel so much better getting off your chest i know you don't think that now but you will understand soon.. tell whichever one you think will take it the best then get her to help you tell the other...
2006-11-08 06:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by mami2nate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get them all together for dinner @ your house
tell them you have a surprise , but they have to wait until after dinner & then after dinner get them all together & tell
them.
Best of luck w/ all of it !
2006-11-08 06:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tought one there luv!
I would suggest writing it in a letter.
2006-11-08 06:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by Prince of Persia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋