2006-11-08 05:48:35 · 12 answers · asked by wannaBluvd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are absolutely right. You should never accept being forced to have sex, when you don't want to. You have a right to decide what to do with your own body - if your man won't accept this, you might want to think about how healthy it is for you to be in this relationship.
Best wishes.
2006-11-08 05:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be mutual, but if it is only when you want it than you are just as guilty of what you are accusing him of here. Selfishness.
"Don't you eve think about my feelings?" Well, don't you ever think about his feelings?
Sometimes you aren't in the mood at all, sometimes you might be and when you start you will be, and other times you want it bad. We all have cycles. Just don't turn him down during the "yes and maybe" times and he won't mind so much the "no" times.
2006-11-08 13:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spent many years giving in to my husband so he'd leave me alone afterward but then I got tired of doing that and now I put my foot down and say no. He always says I'm suppose to do these things for him when asks I tell him if it feels like I'm doing a chore then it won't feel good for me and I refuse to do any more chores then I already have to. I wish his penis would fall off then I'd do a dance for joy.
2006-11-08 13:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree! My husband and I are newly weds and he recently started turning me down when I wanted it. So, in turn, I turned him down when he wanted it and told him now you know how it feels. And now he is more willing to do it when I want and I the same way with him. It is about comprise.
2006-11-08 13:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by brit_dean84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a point. But sometimes you may think that you do not want to but if he turns you on in the right you will want it just as much as him or even more.
Men forget that.
2006-11-08 13:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SHOULD BE MUTUAL SOMETIMES YOU MAY BE IN THE MOOD AND SOMETIMES HE MIGHT BE. COMPROMISE AND COMMUNICATION ARE THE KEY TO A GOOD RELATIONSHIP
IF HE GETS MAD WHEN YOU SAY NO THEN HES BEING VERY SELFISH
2006-11-08 14:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by KAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its mutual sometime he may want to and you dont sometimes you may want it and he doesnt but compromise is part of being in a relationship
2006-11-08 13:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by flyygirlvirgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? If your husband still desires you all the time, take it as a compliment and enjoy it. And initiate it more often, too.
If you're not married, stop doing it until you are so you don't become resentful.
2006-11-08 13:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, you ain't just a p***y. You're a person. Hold out on him, and tell him no. You do it when you want to. You got the power, remember?
2006-11-08 13:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always please my boyfriend, even if that means having sex when I'm not really in the mood. He is in control of every aspect of things like that.
2006-11-08 13:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by Pirate_Wench 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋