Ok so my boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We laugh and have a great time together. But lately I've noticed numbers on his phone with out names. And some times when he's with me someone calls him he will look at his phone and not answer. I trust him with all my heart but then just cause I see him not answer I get these bad dreams of him cheating on me. What do you think and what would you do?
2006-11-08 05:36:13 · 30 answers · asked by cele24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You say that you have a "great relationship" so don't be afraid to voice your concerns. You have to get rid of those haunting thoughts and find out the truth.
2006-11-08 05:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Crisscross 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi!
This one is simple. The next call he gets like you have described, let him hang up then sweetly ask if those are bill collectors or solicitors calling? see what he says. Next, insist on answering the phone for him. Explain that you are very good at deterring solicitors and bill collectors. If he hands you the phone then great! If he doesn't, call the numbers when he isnot around and find out who they are then have a sit down with him. I don't think we can ever be too careful.
2006-11-08 06:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Erik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look at my phone all the time and dont answer it. If i dont no the number sometimes i just dont want to take the chance of answering it and talking to someone i dont want to talk to. I do this in front of my boyfriend all the time so i hope he doesnt get the wrong idea. Your best bet is to sneak a peek at his dialed calls that will tell you the rest of the story.
2006-11-08 05:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by msandbaggin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he after he receives these calls gets up moves to another room and dials ? like if he is home with you and he receives a call he doesn't answer.. does he use the house phone of the cell phone to return the call ? has he been having problems with his family or at work ? maybe he just doesn't want to bother dealing with the family or work when he is with you. If you have access to his phone bill look up what numbers he's been dialing or his received text messages. you cant block your number when you send a text message. Good luck
2006-11-08 05:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy that did this and after about 2 years I finally found out it was other girls. Think about this very carefully the only time you would not answer your phone in front of your boyfriend is if it were another guy calling and you did not want him to get mad. Ask him about it, sure he will deny it but if you want the answer other girls are calling him.
2006-11-08 05:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Venus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said you have a "great" relationship with you b/f so why not just ask him. Tell him you love him and trust him but this one issue is bugging you. Chances are it's a buddy he doesn't want to talk with or work. Best policy is alway open communication... Good Luck!
2006-11-08 05:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by wish2bwriter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight up if he is talking to other chicks or not. My bf does the same thing and he just let me call the numbers and i know who hes talking to all the time. if ya man loves ya, he will let you know who these numbers belong to. Just be upfront with him and let him know how this and that makes you feel.
Communication is the key, so just let him know whats going on through your mind sometimes, when he doesnt answer his phone. I always know who my bf is talking to. My bf wont answer the phone if its someone he doesnt know anyway, he tells me to answer it instead. And sometimes, when my bf doesnt answer its becuz we are around each other. He doesnt like being interrupted when we are together. I know every # in my mans phone.
2006-11-08 05:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a great relationship, there should be no fear, whatsoever, in your mind - to ask it straight from him.
You need to discuss with him. You will get the answer.
If you do not get satisfied with the response, go and have raincheck...
No relationship could be great, if there is even a trace of suspicion between the two persons.
2006-11-08 20:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him on whose numbers these are and ask why he doesn't answer the phone. If it would make you feel safer in your relationship then come right out and ask him to answer your question if he is cheating or not on you honestly.
2006-11-08 05:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi girl, I am boy 19 years old and dint like to interfere in anybody personal matters but I like to say u something just ignore him for a couple of days and see what his reactions are if he doesn't react then he is just any other boy doing time pass with you.
2006-11-08 06:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Amit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋