2006-11-08 05:33:55 · 21 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl, let me tell you from experience...if you want your dude to be more romantice, don't make hints. You need to sit down with him and tell him exactly what you want. They will not get it with subtle hints, they will not be able to put two and two together. You have to be open, honest and direct with him. I know. My man is the same way. If he doesn't respond still, take the innitiative to spice things up. Dance for him, get him arroused...
2006-11-08 05:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't drop hints because he might not pick up on your hints. Communication is key. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel. Don't do it in an aggressive way, but a loving and kind way that he hears your heart and not your attitude. Maybe even give him some examples of what you consider romantic. But also be ready to hear what he may want from you. Love and romance is a two way street and it shouldn't all fall on one person. Grab a cup of coffee, sit by the fireplace and have a nice long talk with your hubby. Good luck!
2006-11-08 05:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to set up situations in which he is bound to do something romantic. Maybe you could write him a letter and put it in his car, or somewhere he will see it when one of you has left for work. Tell him what you love about him and let him know how much you enjoy the moments when he is romantic. Honestly, it seems like most guys don't get our hints, so if you try hinting and nothing happens, just tell him what you like! Good luck!
2006-11-08 05:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by Snow White 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is true...men don't take hints very well. One thing that did work for me though was when we were watching a movie/tv show together where a guy did something romantic for a girl, I would comment how sweet it was. After I did this several times, he would get the picture and say something like "Aren't I romantic?" I would reply (nicely) "Well, I wish you'd do more things like [insert thing on movie/tv] more often. I think it would be really sweet." Eventually he got the picture that I appreciate things like that, so he wanted to do it just to make me happy.
2006-11-08 05:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by Emily D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to drop hints however nice it would be for him to come to the conclusion its not going to happen men and women are different. You need to tell him what your needs are what you want and define romantic to him because he has his own sense of being romantic and he may feel that he is being romantic. Just let him know what being romantic means to you and ask him to step it up a notch, in a nice loving way. You'll see you'll get better results this way. Dropping hints for something you want can set you up for dissappointment because he may not catch on to it.
2006-11-08 05:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men get so carried away that they don't realize that they are not being romantic anymore. you cant just drop him hints because men don't normally get them. But if you are walking around and you see some beautiful flowers, be like "man I wish you would get me some like that" Something like that. If he doesn't get the hint then, you might want to sit down with him and talk with him about how you want him to be more romantic.
2006-11-08 05:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by acoats2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want him to be more romantic, then it's got to start with you being more romantic, example dress up with the high heels, put on a wig, a sexy night grown and have a nice bottle of wine on the table and cook him a nice romantic dinner, have a nice hot bath waiting with rose petals in the water and candles, you do the roll play with him that is sure to work for the both of you, like dress up like Cheri or whom ever you wish and be standing in that kitchen cooking and don't forget to feed him too. While cooking fine a place in the kitchen to do the wild thing, like maybe the table not on the stove where it's hot LOL, but you some times us women have to make the romance come alive don't forget to put on some soft romantic music too, and/or a sex movie too if your into that. So I say go for it and see what happens.
2016-05-21 22:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men aren't very good with hints so if you take this route, you end up resentful and he ends up cofused at your mood. The direct approach is usually best but not in an aggressive manner. More like, "Honey, it would be wonderful if some night I could come home and the kids were at the sitters. We could have candles and champagne..." If he is ever romantic, reinforce it! Thank him, hug him, noticably pointedly note the romantic attempts (but never in front of his buddies ;-)
2006-11-08 05:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by punxy_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop hints... Hes your Husband tell Him what it is you want and need form Him Quit leaving Him guessing...Tell Him what it is YOU need...Men are not mind readers...Open up who you waiting own ...Another Husband...If you cant tell Him these thing then why are you married to Him....get what it is out of your mar rage so it will stay fresh...
2006-11-08 05:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you want. I know that it is less romantic that way but you will more than likely get exactly what you want. I never give my boyfriend hints I tell him what I want and I get it :-)
2006-11-08 05:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋