He is 60, I am 53. We have a wonderful sex life. A few of the women in his address book are old girlfriends.
2006-11-08 05:33:09 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I cannot believe you had to ask, but let me answer this for you anyway. NO!!! It isn't alright! He is being sexual with another woman who isn''t his wife. Is this alright with you?
2006-11-08 05:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just let him honey, and I wouldn't worrry about it too much, if not at all! You mentioned his age and I really don't know too many men at 60 that are carousing around town or getting dates over the net, especially ladies his age which know of him living with you, another woman! Don't make it an issue of insecurity dear, and I wouldn't expect him anytime soon to be whisked away by anyone in the near future. He is fantasizing is what he is doing, and nothing else! You say also that you share a wonderful sex life with him...well, there you go! He's being a man and nothing more...damn Internet! Let him have a little room, which will keep his pot boiling for you! Caio!
2006-11-08 05:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by HotInTX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think by asking you have answered.
If you think it is wrong it is. Maybe not today but someday it will be more than a joke or a photo.
I worked with a lady that was always making a joke or comment about sex. i am single she is not. One day she was talking about having breast implants and said if you paid for them I would let you see them and play with them any time you wanted as long as it didn't conflict with home. I think any time some one makes a statement or joke to someone they are really just seeing what response they get. And if just maybe it lead to more. I would ask him to stop and see what his response is, he should be willing to if he knows you don't approve.
2006-11-08 05:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by confusedfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should consider your views and you his and reach an amical conclusion. It's not hidden so I guess he doesn't consider it to be a problem for you.
Before anyone criticises him, it seems to me that a little sexual excitement at 60 by email isn't doing any fundamental harm - he's entitled to a life too! It's only a problem if you think it might go further.
2006-11-08 05:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by planete_isolee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!! If the women in his address book are ex's, chances are he's forwarding more than just e-mail. If your sex life is so wonderful(your words), then why would he feel he has to do this? Unless he's overdosing the viagra.
2006-11-08 05:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by dumbdago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I guess it depends. If you trust him and these women are good friends, it might be ok. But if he has given you some reason to suspect that these might be more than platonic relationships, you might want to ask him about it. My ex, who is now married, sends me all kinds of emails, some explicit. But we communicate strictly through emails and our relationship is purely platonic. We just always share the same warped sense of humor, so we are still email buddies and nothing more.
2006-11-08 05:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by justcurious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he get out of it and how he feels and Is he really happy with your sex life together. People have different view points about this Issue.
Define yours and State IT to your husband. Good luck and remember pick your battles....on a scale of 1 to 10 how does this rate and do you want to fight about this? It's up to WHAT you want!!!! God bless and Don't stress because he (God) only want the best for you.
2006-11-08 05:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you need to talk to him about it, if you are not OK with it, then you have to let him know that you are not and come up with something that you both agree on. I would say that if he is just emailing everyone on his list with the same thing, it seems innocent, but if he is just emailing them only, I would have a problem with it. Best thing here is communicate with him and tell him how you feel and get it resolved.
2006-11-08 05:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest, It sounds to me like since you know that he does this, he is not doing anything behind your back, which is good. However, I am baised because of religion. I don't think that he should be forwarding sexual material period, let alone to other women. However, that aside, he shouldn't do something that bothers you out of respect for you. If it bothers you, he should stop, period. Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-11-08 05:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think it's improper behavior. It's pretty much the same as if he were flirting with someone at a party in your presence and ignoring you. Cyber flirting I guess. I would consider it disrespectful, and disloyal.
It's a matter of what you're willing to accept.
2006-11-08 05:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I am sorry Mrs. I don't think is appropiate for a person that old. I mean if he was a teenager or a youngster I would understand, but no; I am 19 years old and I don't or know anybody who does that. Sorry!
2006-11-08 05:41:35 · answer #11 · answered by pedro c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋