Being a foreign resident and being invited to bf's home .....1500 miles away....what would be a nice gift to bring his mother for us staying there and celebrating with them? also i plan on leaving a thank you note too formal?? my first american thanksgiving! :)
This is the second time i've met her...we are staying for 4 days
something easily transportable....she doesn't drink...should i wait and pick something up at the grocery store??
Any advice is much appreciated!
2006-11-08 05:02:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Thanksgiving
I would suggest calling a florist and having a beautiful centerpiece delivered.......have one with a candle in the center so you can light it and all give thanks!!! No a thank you note is always a nice touch......I am sure you will make a wonderful impression on the family!!! Do NOT pick up anything at the grocery store as I am sure she has the entire meal planned!
2006-11-08 05:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the United States! Most people don't bring anything more than their appetites to Thanksgiving dinner. However, if you want to score points with Mom, bring flowers or a bottle of wine. But check with your boyfriend before bringing the wine. Alcohol is counter to some people's religious beliefs. A formal thank you note will blow Mom away! Most people don't send thank you notes. It is a lovely gesture! I think you will make a favorable impression on Mom!
2006-11-08 13:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HI! Welcome the the USA! I hope you have a WONDERFUL FIRST THANKSGIVING! You have FANTASTIC manners to bring a gift for your host/hostess! I have been hosting over TEN YEARS and none of my relatives/friends have brought me anything. I would suggest a beautiful bouquet of flowers or a lovely fruit basket. Either would be a nice touch. Too bad they don't drink. I know Thanksgiving makes me yearn for a bottle of nice wine! Have a GREAT Thanksgiving!!
2006-11-09 10:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by mychemicalromancelover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a camera, you could give her a picture frame and then take a family picture with everyone at the table or grouped together. Get it printed to put in the frame.
The thank-you note would be very nice. People are too casual and often neglect this.
2006-11-08 20:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ginger/Virginia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree that flowers always make for a nice gift. Other options could be a gift basket, candles, or possibly even an ornament (if they celebrate Christmas and have a tree).
Yes, do write her a thank you note afterwords, they are always appreciated and will make you stand out!
Enjoy and good luck. Have a safe trip and a nice holiday!
2006-11-08 14:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by JustAThought 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is very thoughtull idea to bring something for thanksgiving.I like the thank you note.That would probably be enough or maybe you could cook a reciepe from your country and ask your bf if they would be open minded to that
2006-11-09 11:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by cass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is family, most people if living nearby help cook the dinner, but if visiting from out of town something simple such as candlesticks, centerpieces, etc. will do.
2006-11-08 22:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by Niche Jerk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get there a bouquet of flowers are nice from a flower shop. she will have all the food needed .because you are traveling so far .happy holidays may they be bright.
2006-11-08 13:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if they drink then a nice bottle of wine would be a sweet idea...if not then flowers or a nice house plant
2006-11-08 14:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a delicious pie!
2006-11-08 21:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by xxxcerealfordinnerxxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋