My b/f and i have been trying for a while and we cant get pregnant. We have tried almost everything. But if there is anyone out there that had the same problem and they have a healthy baby....let me know what you did...
thank you so much!
2006-11-08 04:26:44 · 9 answers · asked by acoats2006 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your fiance to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your fiance to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-11-08 13:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three months is not a long time to try. If you were previously on the pill it may take that long for you to ovulate anyway. Yes, you can get ovulation predictors, take your temperature, try folk remedies, see a fertility expert....but you'll drive yourself crazy. Unless there is a good reason why you think you might have a difficult time conceiving (age, medical history) I don't think you need to do anything besides have fun trying.
2006-11-08 19:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by eli_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are having these knid of problems maybe your twos timing is off. I would try ovualtion predictor and see when you are ovualting maybe that will help. Also go with the flow, stressing out about having a baby just makes the whole baby making process alot harder. Goodluck... And if that cotinues try talking to you doctor maybe he can help...
2006-11-08 12:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... Not sure how old youare - age plays a role. You might be too young and your body isn't ready ??
Could be that you have not calculated your ovulation date properly.
On average it take 3 months to a year for most people to conceive.
2006-11-08 13:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by family_matters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on your "womanly cycle". Try having or try to conceive the time right before your period and if that doesn't work try the days following your period. At least for 4 days following your period. I'm pretty sure your b/f not going to mind having sex for 4 days in a row.
2006-11-08 12:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by dsroliver 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are fertility drugs you can get, or in vitro fertilization. also there are optimal times during your cycle that you can get pregnant. the egg is released approximately 2 weeks after the end of your period. trust me, im a doctor
2006-11-08 12:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by Phil W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry about it after you get married.
2006-11-08 12:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by CelebrateMeHome 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well my mom had me and then she couldn't have any more for medical reasons. ask your docter.
2006-11-08 12:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by queen_hanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting maried first!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-08 12:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by olampyone 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋