2006-11-08 04:09:30 · 18 answers · asked by denocapi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Say, "Hi, how are you?"
2006-11-08 04:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean at a bar or at church? :) Regardless,women love guys who smell nice so choose (but not overuse) a clean scent from a high end department store. Sorry, drug store brands don't do it for most women. If it's a stranger at a cafe, just keep it light and smile and ask for the time, or ask for directions to someplace that says something about your interests, like a travel agency, a scuba school, or art gallery. If it's someone from school or work, ask open-ended questions about assignments and projects and be sincere as you make eye contact. If she holds your gaze and reciprocates your smile, that definitely indicates interest. But don't appear too eager at this point. If she leans forward, mirror her movements, but if she's coy, just play it off like you're not overly anxious. Sometimes, I hate to say it, but, it could pay off for you to take chances. Like after I met a guy for coffee for the first time, and even though he wasn't my type, at the end of the "date" while we were saying goodbye, he slipped his hand around my waist playfully. It caught me off-guard, and it was an icebreaker. Needless to say, there was a second date, and a third . . . . Just be confident, no matter what you look like, self-assuredness is a huge turn-on for girls. Hope this helps. Good luck!
2006-11-08 04:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by GLADIATOR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about being able to spark interest or curiosity.....and in a fun way...
it's how you feel inside that counts....the energy that you project.....if you project genuine interest, confidence, and a fun intention.....it will be interesting to her......
think of a time when you felt like a million bucks and then walk up and just say "hey" and make eye contact. She will feel it and it will be contagious....
once you get the hang of it they will even come to you....
2006-11-08 04:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by giovanni g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever try to impress, forget the compliments. Especially if she's hot.
Come from a curiosity point of view, it's ok to be attracted of course, but don't be willing to give it away just BECAUSE she's attractive. Find out what SHE is like to know if SHE is good enough FOR YOU.
Trust me...qualify her, she'll love you for it!
2006-11-08 04:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being yourself and being simple. Don't brag about yourself, be thoughtful, and ask about her feelings of you wanting to talk with her. Maybe pick a flower and hand it to her, buy her a drink, a softdrink, or cup of coffee. Smile. Don't be too pushy...you can usually tell when they're not interested. Tell them what you noticed first about her, but be respectful about it.
2006-11-08 04:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by Sheelalake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the front - Women get nervous when people creep up from behind!
2006-11-08 04:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by Albert Hall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carefully!
2006-11-08 04:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by Bridgett D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like it when guys r themselves, not stupid line spitters. do something casual. buy her a drink. compliment her (i saw you over here and i just had to say hi). ask her to dance. do something gentalmenly (hold a door, pullout a chair). do act like your gids gift to women, we hate it (well, most of us, i cant speak for the whole women population)
2006-11-08 04:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tackle like a linebacker?
2006-11-08 04:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by themistocles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be what you are, don't try to copy others because you can never be like them. show the truth and behave naturally, treat her like a close friend and give respect to her
2006-11-08 04:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by prisoner in life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the time, directions and to compliment them on something.
2006-11-08 04:10:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋