what r the signs of cheating husbands??

Question

how to catch his acts whe ur spouse travels for his job whole week? u r in one state and he works in another state?

Answer 1

Signs of a cheating husband vary but here are some general ideas...
When your husband is no longer looking for sex from you
When he whispers into the phone
When he says he is working and no one at the office has seen him.
When he is overly nice to you (like he is making up for something he did wrong)
When you find strange numbers on his phone or in his pocket.
The out of state thing is a little hard, but when he is in state the most common way it to hire and actress to hit on your husband. Hire a private investigator to follow him around. Or if you have a tight budget like so many of us. Download a secret spyware on you computer that records everything you husband is doing. He has to be contacting these women somehow.

Answer 2

First of all, if you really love and know your husband you'll be able to have a deep feeling inside that his changed. When he startes to get rude, and over protected of you all the time (wanting to know your where abouts) his making sure that he does bump heads with you. Know if his traveling and while his away he only calls you once or twice a day that's a sign. I feel if your his wife he should call you very often to see how everything is going at home. Now, if you have to call him all the time and he comes up with a reason to get off the phone within a 5 to 30 min talk, that's a sign. If his been working he should be happy to speak with his wife about that hard work day. If after all that and he never calls you back, and you just call him and no answer that means he has left the room or he has company. If it's after hours he should be in his room getting rest for another hard working day. Now when he comes home, see if his going to seduce you first and if not try him. If he tries to get out of the situation that's a big sign! When he comes home from a long trip with his job that should be one of the first thing on his mind is romance.

Answer 3

The biggest sign is always a change in usual behavior. If he starts working late, spending more time on the computer, or becoming defensive about things he shouldn't need to be. If he begins locking his cell phone, deleting messages on his phone or in email. Starts receiving blocked calls, anything like that if it is different than he usually did. Affairs and cheating take time and effort and money. A woman is not going to have an affair with him if she isn't getting any attention except sex. She will want to talk to him on the phone, email him, go on dates, ect. He will want to buy her gifts. It will all show up eventually. Also, if he has always been buying everything with a debit card, for example (I rarely carry cash anymore) and suddenly begins making cash withdrawls instead, it is a sign he is hiding purchases and expenses. Another thing to look for, I read this in a book from a private detective, cheaters seem to want to disappear the day before or day after a "woman's holiday" such as Mother's Day or Valentines Day. This PI said the day after Valentine's day was his best day to catch cheaters as they wanted to be with their mistress. Something to think about.

Answer 4

If you feel that he is cold or distant and when you ask him if anything is wrong he says no he has work on his mind. If he receives phone calls that he moves to another room to take or he makes frequent calls that , again , he moves to another room to finish. Sex .. which is probably a cliche... but the lack of interest is also a sign. Look for credit card receipts, men like to give gifts to their girls .. look for purchases at department stores or jewelry stores .and also look for new stuff on him , a new tie that he seems to prefer,a new watch, ring ,shirt or cologne, Women like to give intimate , personal gifts that they like their guy to wear and show off . Look at his phone bill if you can obtain it. don't hesitate to call a phone number you see appearing on his bill a lot at different times of the day. especially early mornings or late at night or a long conversation the day of or before he is supposed to come home to you. or a number that shows before he arrives and right after he does. He doesn't want to go out much, either prefers to stay home on the phone or on the Internet which is another way of communication. or he just prefers to stay home and not get involved with you or the kids. I hope it is none of this and he is faithful to you and his family. Best of luck

Answer 5

Honestly, revaluation of the covenant you both purposed should be considered. So many people jump to conclusions. Knowing the circumstances before hand. Should be comfort enough for you to uphold the trust. If he is cheating, as his wife you'll know. A woman knows where another woman has been.

Answer 6

Cell phone records, credit card bills - they are coming home to you while he is on the road. Simply examine them. If he is calling 'her' and spending money on 'her', it will be there - unless of course he has a 2nd phone and a 2nd bank account - and if he does he is a completely worthless remorseless sociopath.

But what an odd relationship you have anyway - it seems mighty tough to make such a setup work in reality.

Answer 7

signs: change in sex habits, more kinky or less kinky

how to catch: first of all you should trust your husband if not: go through his cell phone and the bill see which numbers he spend the most time on. call the hotel room or where ever he is staying at odd hours to see if he is there. if all else fails hire a pi.

Answer 8

Hire a P.I.

Well one of the signs of a cheating husband is the jobs that take them away.. like truckers for example. "my brothers a trucker and I know how he is"

Does he act differently when he returns home? different ways in bed? does he shower as soon as he walks in the door?
do you see hairs on him, smell perfume?

then there women intuition, if you feel it, then he is.

Answer 9

Spend the money and hire a P.I. It's the only way you'll catch him out of town.

Answer 10

Big clue is if the sex drops off. If you usually have lots of sex when he is home, and all of a sudden it stops. Also, if phone calls are fewer and farther between.