2006-11-08 03:44:41 · 15 answers · asked by S 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Hey. I do but I can't help it! It's my nature. he he.
When nice gets sickening, it's good to go a little naughty. I think everyone has a little angel/devil on each shoulder talking to us and giving out unsolicited advice. Sometimes it's good to tell the nice sweet angel(on left or right shoulder) to beat it. lol.
Sometimes life calls for not being nice. It's all a flow and a responding to the moment.
How is your little devil these days? I know you have one! LOL.
Good question, sims.
2006-11-08 13:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by .. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no real step by step. The first thing is to talk to women, which you seem to have down. A few tips I've learned that seem to work. Don't compliment her directly. This is offputting for some reason. They like compliments, just not "you're pretty." Compliment her style instead. Try to find out about her dad during conversations. Sometimes the key to a woman's panties is through her father. If she has good things to say about her dad, try to take or mimic those qualities. Make her feel a little special. This girl I was seeing (for a couple days) told me she hated her eyes. She thought they were plain brown. I told her this is nonsense and how I loved her eyes. No joke, on top of everything else (ie, getting her to my house for drinks and a movie, see below), that sealed the deal. We had sex that night. It may take a couple days, but try to get her to your house for a movie or a few drinks. I'm not saying get her vomiting drunk then date rape her. But, bringing them to your house seems to help immensely in getting in a woman's panties. Find out what qualities she likes in a man. If she likes a quality you don't have, make up a story that makes up for this quality. Example, she likes tall men. It's probably because they make her feel safe. Make up a believable story of how you effectively protected someone. If you're not tall, she may overlook that "flaw" based on her perceptions of your abilities. I hope this helps and I agree with you when you say girls dont' like the nice guys. Or they would have dated us when we were still nice.
2016-05-21 22:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Audrey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Especially when it seems like people who are nasty have the most success (nice house, car, easy job). Then I vow to be mean and not care what other people think.
Then something will happen where I will need someone else's help and I am glad that not everyone is a jerk. It causes me to re-think my approach and want to be a better person so that I can help others like the people that were kind enough to help me.
It's a daily struggle... I hope good wins out.
2006-11-08 03:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Trust no 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes i get tired of it, because then people will take advantage of my kindness and take it for granted, that's when i stop and realize that i am becoming a fool acting too nice with these people. there is only a few people I'm always nice to. so watch out how nice you are, don't become too nice that you can become everyones' fool.
2006-11-09 17:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by latina_chavez_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to get tired of being too nice when I felt I'm being taken advantage of. Now I try to put a stop to being taken advantage of, while still remaining a nice person.
2006-11-08 04:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, and you just can't. People will walk all over you, hurt you and abuse you. You have to, to some degree, every day be at least firm and direct. Many people see Nice in many different ways so no matter how hard you try you can't please them all and it is not worth trying. Be nice, be yourself, don't be a jerk, but don't be a doormat either.
2006-11-08 03:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by spitfin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't say i get tired of being nice....but i do get tired of being taken advantage of because people know i am too nice sometimes!!!!! but i love smiling and being nice to everyone...especially those that aren't real nice people cause then they wonder what you are up to!!!! it drives them insane!!!
2006-11-08 03:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only when I've very tired or sick. When I start to feel that way, I pray for self control, then go home and go to bed.
2006-11-08 03:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by Teddie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i have no motivation to be mean.
however i never do anything that causes me to feel resentful.
i never sacrifice to the point that i feel someone owes me.
only if i can do it out of a glad heart.
i think maybe you are sacrificing too much of yourself for others.
and the weird part is they probably don't appreciate it.
2006-11-08 03:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sufi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's OK to wear the white hat. the Lone Ranger, Hopalong Cassidy are just two of those who did and they never got tired of it.
2006-11-08 08:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by madmike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋